Pali njira zambiri zomwe mungakwaniritsire zolinga zanu: mungathe kukopa, kukopa, mungapite patsogolo, ndipo mungaphunzire momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito anthu , ndiyeno adzapereka zonse zomwe akufuna kukupatsani ndi ndalama, ndipo amakhulupirira ndi mtima wonse kuti izi ndizo kusankha kwawo. Ndipo izi sizithunzithunzi zosangalatsa, psychology ya kunyenga anthu imatsegula chiyembekezo chachikulu. Chinthu china n'chakuti si onse omwe amaimira malo ogwiritsira ntchito chidziwitso ichi m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, komabe yankho likupezeka pamwamba - maubwenzi ndi amuna.
Psychology ya kumulondolera munthu
Mwachidziwikire, mkazi aliyense amadziŵa bwino kwambiri maganizo ake pankhani yowunzitsa munthu , koma anthu ena amangogwiritsa ntchito njirayi mosiyana, mwachitsanzo, amakana "kuloŵa m'thupi", kuyesera kukambirana chinachake. Njirayo siili yogwira mtima kwambiri, yogwiritsira ntchito nthawi yokhala ndi ubale wa nthawi yaitali. Zoona, amadziwonetsera yekha ndi 99 peresenti kumayambiriro kwa chidziwitso chake, "kugwa kwa nyumba yachangu" mofulumira kwambiri, ndi anthu owerengeka omwe ayenera kulawa. Koma nzeru za anthu za njira yopita kumtima wa munthu kudzera mimba ndi zolungama kuposa zonse, motsimikiza kuti mwazindikira kuti pambuyo pa chakudya chamadzulo munthu amakhala wochezeka ndipo amadziwa mosiyana.
Psychology ya kugwiritsidwa kwa anthu
Kugwiritsa ntchito mwanjira imeneyi kumaphatikizapo kugwiritsa ntchito mwaluso mawu omwe angathandize kukwaniritsa cholinga. Mwachitsanzo, kulimbikitsa munthu kuti achite zomwe mukufuna, kodi mawu oti "Ndikudziwa kuti chifukwa cha ine mudzachita chirichonse," "zonse zidzakhala bwino, musaganize za chirichonse," "inunso mukufuna." Koma woimira aliyense wa theka labwino amayenera kufufuza njira yake, wina amafunikira kutamandidwa, ndipo wina ali wokondwa kwambiri moti zimakhala zosavuta kuti amufunikire, "kumusokoneza." Mwamuna wanuyo adzakondwera kukuthandizani ndi zochita zanu, phunzirani zomwe zimayambitsa nkhondo yake
Ngati zosankhazi sizikugwirizana ndi inu, yesetsani njira ina yowonongolera, bisani cholinga chanu chachikulu pamakina a malamulo ochepa. Zimakhala zovuta kuti anthu ambiri ayambe ntchito yapadziko lonse kamodzi, koma zidzakhala zosavuta kuzikwaniritsa pang'onopang'ono. Musati musonyeze mwatsatanetsatane zachinyengo chanu, ndipo mwamunayo amvetse kuti munaganiza kuti mumumenya, ndipo musatayike munthu aliyense amene amamukonda kwambiri. Musaiwale kuti mnzanuyo akhoza kukuchititsani inu, ndipo mu mphamvu yanu kupanga "chess game" yeniyeni.