Mayesero - kafukufuku wokhudzana ndi maganizo a Stolin

Kodi mwakhala mukuganiza motalika bwanji momwe mumadzichitira nokha? Mwinamwake mukudzidalira nokha posachedwa, ndikudzipempha nokha, ndipo mwinamwake mwakhalapo nthawi yaitali kuti mutha kuzindikira kuti ndinu okhoza ndipo, chifukwa chaichi, muli ndi mtima wodzichepetsa.

Mafunso okhudzana ndi mgwirizano wa Stolin - kusankhidwa

Chiyeso - funso lothandizira kuti ubale wawo Stolin udalengedwe kuti uzindikire chimodzi mwazigawo za ufulu wa chiyanjano. Kotero, kawirikawiri amakhulupirira kuti pali zigawo zotsatirazi za ubale wa munthuyo payekha:

1. Gawo la zochitika zina (kapena kukonzekera kwa iwo) mogwirizana ndi umunthu wa "I".
2. Gawo lachiyanjano, chomwe chimasiyanitsidwa ponena za kudzimana, zoyembekeza za zofuna zaumwini payekha, kudzidalira ndi kudzikonda.
3. Gawo la ubale wapadziko lonse wa munthu payekha.

Gawo loyambalo likuyesedwa kuti ndilosiyana ndi zomwe zili mkati mwa chithunzi cha munthuyo ("I-fano"). Ichi ndi chiyimire kapena kudziwa za munthu payekha, ubale wake kwa iye mwini, osati pokhapokha mawonekedwe ena omwe akuwonetsedwa. Chifukwa Mu moyo wake wonse, munthu aliyense ali ndi chidziwitso chodzidzimitsa yekha, kudzidziwitsa yekha za iye yekha, ndiye chidziwitso ichi ndipo ndi chimodzi mwa zigawo zomwe munthu ali nazo pamaganizo ake. Chidziwitso ichi chimakhala chinthu choyesedwa chaumunthu, kumverera kwake, kumasanduka nkhani ya chiyanjano chaumunthu.

Pepala la mayeso la mgwirizano wa Stolin-Panteleev limaphatikizapo izi:

1. Mzere S ndi maganizo a dziko lonse payekha. Amatanthauzira kumvetsetsa kwakukulu kwa phunzirolo, kutanthauza "inde" kapena "ayi" mwa umunthu wake wamkati.
2. Mphindi 1 - kudzilemekeza nokha.
3. Mzere wachiwiri - kuvomereza maganizo.
4. Mzere wachitatu ndi ubale womwe munthu amayembekezera kuchokera kwa ena kwa iye mwini.
5. Mzere wachinayi - kudzifunira nokha.

Palinso pulogalamu yothetsera maubwenzi Panteleev-Stolin akuphatikizapo magawo asanu ndi awiri, omwe cholinga chake ndikutanthauzira maonekedwe a zochitika zina za mkati zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito payekha "I" wa munthu yemwe akuyesedwa.

1. Mphindi 1 - kudzidalira nokha.
2. Mzere 2 - chiŵerengero cha ena ku phunziro.
3. Mzere wachitatu ndi kuvomereza wekha.
4. Mzere wachinayi ndi mphamvu yodziletsa.
5. Mzere wachisanu ndi chidziwitso chokha.
6. Ndondomeko 6 - chidwi chanu.
7. Mlingaliro 7 - kumvetsetsa zochita zawo, zisankho, ndi zina zotero.

Mafunso okhudzana ndi ubale Stolin - Panteleev - malangizo.

Muyenera kuyankha malemba 57 otsatirawa. Ikani "+" kapena "-" malinga ndi yankho lanu.

1. Anzanga amandichitira bwino.
2. Mawu anga ndi ntchito ndi chimodzi.
3. Anthu omwe ali pafupi ndi ine amawona chinthu chofanana ndi changa.
4. Nthawi zambiri ndimawona zolephera zanga.
5. Ndine munthu wokongola kwa ena.
6. Chithunzi changa chiri kutali ndi chenicheni "Ine".
7. Ndimakhala wokondweretsa nthawi zonse.
8. Nthawi zambiri ndimadzimvera chisoni.
9. Ndili ndi anthu omwe ndimayandikira nawo.
10. Sindinayenera kudzilemekeza.
11. Nthawi zina ndimadzida ndekha.
12. Ndimakhulupirira zokhumba zanga zonse.
13. Ndikufuna kusintha ndekha.
14. Sindimvetsera "I" wanga.
15. Ndikufuna kuti zonse zikhale zabwino m'moyo.
16. Ndikunyoza ndekha ndi chitonzo.
17. Ndiwoneka ngati munthu wabwino kwa mlendo.
18. Ndikuvomereza zochita zanga.
19. Ndimadana ndi zofooka zanga.
20. Ndikufuna kukhala ndi chidwi cholankhulana ndi awiriwa.
21. Zina mwa makhalidwe anga ndi achilendo kwa ine.
22. Sikuti aliyense adzamva kuti ali ngati ine.
23. Ndizitsatira zomwe zinakonzedweratu.
24. Nthawi zambiri ndimadzitonza ndekha.
25. Chinthu choyenera kwambiri ndi kumvera.
26. Wachilendo amandiona kuti ndikungosangalala.
27. Ngati sindinanene chilichonse, sizikutanthauza kuti ndidzachita mwanjira imeneyi.
28. Kudzidalira kwanga n'kwabwino.
29. Ndimakondwera ndi zofooka zathu.
30. Sindikondweretsa wokonda nthawi zonse.
31. Nthawi zina ndimafuna chinachake choopsa kuti chichitike kwa ine.
32. Sindimakhumudwitsa anzanga.
33. Ndimasangalala ndikadziwona ndekha pamaso pa wokondedwa wanga.
34. Ndidzifunsa ndekha ngati zili zachifundo pamene zikhumbo zikuwuka.
35. Ine sindine kanthu.
36. Nthawi zina ndimadzikonda.
37. Ndimayamikira ndekha.
38. Sindingakhulupirire kuti ndine wamkulu.
39. Popanda kuthandizidwa ndi ena, sindingathe kuchita zambiri.
40. Nthawi zina sindikumva ndekha.
41. Palibe mphamvu zokwanira, zolinga.
42. Anthu omwe ali pafupi ndi ine amayamikira izo.
43. Ndimakhumudwitsa.
44. Sindimanyalanyaza.
45. Ine ndikupangitsa kukwiya mwa ine ndekha.
46. Ndidzichepetsa ndekha.
47. Makhalidwe oipa ndi abwino ndi amodzi.
48. Ndimasangalala ndi "I" wanga.
49. Sindidzakondedwa chifukwa cha zenizeni.
50. Maloto anga sali oyenera.
51. Wachiwiri wanga "I" ungakhale wosangalatsa polankhulana.
52. Ndidzapeza chinenero chimodzi ndi munthu wanzeru.
53. Sindikumvetsa zonse zomwe zikuchitika mwa ine.
54. Ndili ndi ubwino wambiri.
55. Sindidzatsutsidwa ndichinyengo.
56. Ngati ndikuvutika, ndimayankha kuti: "Ndikukutumikira bwino"
57. Ine ndikulamulira tsogolo.

Muyenera kufotokozera mwachidule mawu omwe mumavomereza nawo pamene akulowetsa chinthu ndi "+" ndi mawu osalongosoka ngati akuphatikizidwa mu zinthu zolakwika. Mudzalandira "chiwerengero chowoneka". Imasuliridwa kuchokera ku ma tebulo mpaka pafupipafupi (%).

Zinthu zomwe zimagwera mu chinthu china:

Mzere S:

• "+": 2, 5, 23, 33, 37, 42, 46, 48, 52, 53, 57;
• "-": 6, 9, 13, 14, 16, 18, 30, 35, 38, 39, 41, 43, 44, 45, 49, 50, 56.

Mlingo wa kudzidalira (I):

• "+": 2, 23, 53, 57;
• "-": 8, 13, 25, 27, 31, 35, 38, 39, 40, 41, 50.

Mlingo wa kudzimana (II):

• "+": 12, 18, 28, 29, 37, 46, 48, 54;
• "-": 4, 9, 11, 16, 19, 24, 45, 56.

Ubale woyembekezeka kuchokera kwa ena (III):

• "+": 1, 5, 10, 15, 42, 55;
• "-": 3, 26, 30, 32, 43, 44, 49.

Mlingo wa kudzikonda (IV):

• "+": 7, 17, 20, 33, 34, 52;
• «-»: 14, 51.

Mlingo wa kudzidalira (1):

• "+": 2, 23, 37, 42, 46;
• «-»: 38, 39, 41.

Chiŵerengero cha ena (2):

• "+": 1, 5, 10, 52, 55;
• «-»: 32, 44.

Mgwirizano wodzivomereza (3):

• "+": 12, 18, 28, 47, 48, 54;
• «-»: 21.

Mlingo wa kudziimira (4):

• + ": 50, 57;
• "-": 25, 27, 31, 35, 36.

Mlingo wa kudziwonetsera nokha (5):

• «+»: 3, 4, 9, 11, 16, 24, 45, 56;
• «-»: palibe zotsatira

Mlingo wa zokonda (6):

• "+": 17, 20, 33;
• «-»: 26, 30, 49, 51.

Mlingo wa kudzimvetsetsa (7):

• "+": 53;
• «-»: 6, 8, 13, 15, 22, 40.

Chizindikirochi chimati:

• ngati zosakwana 50 - palibe chizindikiro chikuwonetsedwa;
• 50 - 74 - chizindikiro chikuwonetsedwa;
• oposa 74 - chizindikiro chodziwika.