Zikuwoneka kuti sizinyamatayo, koma sizinali dona wa zaka za Balzac - mkazi, koma zikhoza kukhala zosiyana. Wina amasintha nsalu zazing'ono za msungwana kuti azikongoletsera zokongola, amalipira nthawi ndikuyang'ana zamtsogolo ndi chiyembekezo, ndipo wina amasintha, amavala chinachake chopanda mawonekedwe, amadandaula, akugwedezeka, akudandaula ... Matendawa amatchedwa "aunt's syndrome" , pamene simukuyembekezera chilichonse chabwino m'moyo, simukuwona chifukwa chodziwonera nokha ndikusiya moyo ndi kusamalira ana.
Malamulo 8 kapena momwe mungachotsere azimayi anu
- Choyamba, muyenera kubwezeretsa mkaziyo. N'zoona kuti kuyenda ndi mwanayo kumakhala bwino mu nsapato kapena nsapato za ballet, koma nsapato za tsitsili ziyenera kukhala mu zovala za mkazi aliyense, ngati madiresi panjira. Pansi ndi mchira wosakhwima pamutu mwanu: ndi nthawi yosintha chithunzi, kupanga piritsi pa kuwala ndi umunthu. Ndikofunika kudzipangitsa kudzidalira mwa inu nokha kuti mudakali-kupita-kupita! Ndipo zaka sizotsutsa.
- Chitani chilichonse mwachangu ndi chikondi. Kuti mukhale okondwa ndikusangalala ndi mphindi iliyonse yomwe mumakhala ndi ana ndi mwamuna, nkofunika kusiya udindo wa kavalo wothamangitsidwa. Osati nthawi yokwanira yoyeretsa? Ndi bwino kukopa mwana wake wamwamuna kapena wamkazi, ndipo mukhoza kupita kukagula limodzi ndi banja lonse kumapeto kwa sabata.
- Zikuwoneka bwino ngakhale panyumba, pamene palibe wina koma a m'banja amachiwona. Chotsamba choyambirira chakumakonda chimalowetsedwa ndi chida choyenera, ndipo palibe tsitsi loyera ndi misomali yokonzekera bwino.
- Musasangalale ndi maganizo a anthu ena. Ndi "aakazi" okha omwe ali osangalatsa, "zomwe anthu anganene." Mkazi wodalirika akudutsa mu moyo ndi mutu wake wokhala pamwamba ndikuchita zomwe akufuna, popanda kuyang'ana maganizo a wina.
- Chotsani matenda a agogo anu aang'ono, ndikumbukira kuti palibe amene amafunikira kanthu kwa wina aliyense. Mkazi ndi mayi sayenera kuyima maola angapo ku stowe, kukonzekera raznosoly tsiku ndi tsiku pansi pakhomo. Pamapeto pake, ngati pansiyo yasambitsidwa kamodzi pa sabata, palibe amene adzafera, ndipo m'malo mwa chakudya chamadzulo chamomwe mungapereke kunyumba kuchokera kumsika .
- Kuphatikizana kwaukwati, mwamuna makamaka akufuna kuti awone pafupi ndi mkazi - bwenzi, wokondeka ndi musere,
koma osati wophika ndi woyeretsa. Mukhoza kufunsa aliyense yemwe ali ndi chilakolako chogonana chomwe akufuna: nyumba yoyera ndi borsch, koma mkazi wokwiya ndi wokangana, kapena mazira okazinga ndi kugonana osasamba, koma kuphatikiza ndi zokongola, kukopa, komanso kuposa mkazi wokoma mtima, muzonse komanso nthawi zonse kumuthandiza mwamuna wake? Yankho lake ndi losavomerezeka. - Matenda a aang'ono adzatha ngati mutasangalalira nokha, ena, tsiku latsopano, mphepo yamkuntho ndi zinthu zazing'ono zomwe zimapanga moyo.
- Nthawi zonse ndi kulikonse khalani okonzeka kugonana. Musamachite mantha ndikuyesera wokondweretsa mnzanuyo.