Makhalidwe abwino m'banja

Banja loyenera alibe malamulo abwino chifukwa chakuti mabanja oterewa salipo. Ngakhale, ndithudi, aliyense ali ndi kumvetsetsa kwawo kwabwino ndipo tonse timayesetsa. Lero, tiyeni tikambirane za malamulo omwe banja liyenera kukhala lodzilemekeza.

Ngati sukulu iziphunzitsa maphunziro omwe amasonyeza nthawi za moyo wa banja, miyambo ndi miyambo, ndiye kuti maukwati abwino adzakula. Achinyamata omwe amalowa mu mgwirizano wopatulika nthawi zambiri samadziwa kuti ndi ntchito yanji.

Timatsatira malamulo

Moyo wokwatirana uyenera kuyamba ndi choonadi ndi kuwona mtima wina ndi mzake. Anthu okwatirana ayenera kudziwa zomwe akuchita, kukhala ndi chidaliro posankha wosankhidwayo.

Banja ndilo anthu ang'onoang'ono omwe, kuti akhale mwamtendere, ayenera kukhazikitsa malamulo ake aang'ono ndi kuwalemekeza. Makhalidwe abwino a m'banja ndi awa:

• ndikofunikira kuzindikira wina ndi mnzake ngati mtengo wapamwamba;
• chisamaliro chosadzikonda ndi chikondi chokhudza mkazi;
• Chisoni ndi kutenga nawo mbali mu moyo wa mamembala onse, okonzeka kubweretsa chithandizo ndi kuthandizira;
• chikhumbo chodziwitsira kulimbikitsa ubwino wamba wa banja;
• kukana kudzikonda ndikuganizira zofuna za ena.

Malamulo oyankhulana ndi maubwenzi m'banja ayenera kukhazikitsidwa podziwa udindo wa aliyense m'banja. Tonsefe timachita maudindo ena. Ndili ndi makolo, tonsefe timachita udindo wa mwana, kuntchito ife timagwira nawo ntchito, ogwira nawo ntchito, ku sukulu - ophunzira. M'banjamo, monga mwa mtundu uliwonse, timakhalanso ndi "maphwando" ena. Mkazi amachita monga mkazi ndi amayi. Izi zikutanthauza kuti kusamalira mwamuna ndi ana ndikofunika kwambiri. Kulemekeza mkaziyo, kuzindikira kuti iye ndiye mutu wa banja, chikondi ndi chikhumbo chokhala ndi iye onse - maganizo awa ayenera kuwonedwa ndi ana. Iwo ali osamala kwambiri, "konzani" mawu onse ndi kuwafanizira makolo awo mu chirichonse. Choncho, ayenera kusonyeza chitsanzo chabwino.

Mkaziyo, nayenso, akuyenera kuti azizoloŵera udindo wa mwamuna ndi bambo wachikondi, womuteteza wa anthu omwe ali okondedwa ndi pafupi naye. Kuwopsya mtima kwa mkazi, kulemekeza ndi kumuyamikira. Palibe chomwe chingathe gwiritsani ntchito mphamvu, osatchula kuti "njira yolankhulana" imeneyi imagwiritsidwa ntchito patsogolo pa ana. Ndizochepa, zotanthawuza ndi zachiwerewere.

Kudalira ndi kulemekeza pakati pa ana ndi makolo ndikofunikira. Ngati mayi angathe kukhala bwenzi lenileni komanso mlangizi kwa mwana wake wamkazi, mavuto ambiri poleredwa adzapewa. Ndipo musaiwale kuphunzitsa ana malamulo oyambirira a ulemu, omwe amachokera m'banja. Kulemekeza akulu, chizoloŵezi cholankhulana ndi khalidwe, malamulo a chiyanjano chakumwa - pa zonsezi mwanayo adzakuuzani kuti: "Zikomo!".