Malingana ndi chiwerengero, chaka chilichonse mabanja ambiri amatha, koma, mwatsoka, palibe amene angayankhe funso la mawiri awiri omwe anaphwanyidwa palimodzi. Monga lamulo, mwamuna amasiya banja, koma mkaziyo ayenera kuyembekezera ndi kukhulupirira kuti adzabwerera. Koma kodi ndi bwino kukhala pansi, osayanjanitsika, kapena kodi mumayenera kuchotsa mnzanuyo mwanjira inayake ndikubwezeretsa mwamuna wanu kubanja? Kumayambiriro, muyenera kufufuza zochitikazo ndikuyamba kuchita.
Momwe mungabwezerere mwamuna kuchokera kwa amayi awo - malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo
Azimayi ambiri safuna kuchita chilichonse payekha, koma apite ku chithandizo cha akatswiri a maganizo odziwa zamaganizo kuti awathandize. Pano pali nsonga zazikulu zomwe akatswiri aza maganizo amapereka kwa amayi.
- Bweretsani thupi ndi malingaliro . Simukusowa kuti mukhale ndi kuzisunga usana ndi usiku. Inde, muyenera kumasula maganizo, koma nthawi yomweyo muzidzikweza nokha. Pambuyo pake mukhoza kusamba ndi kumasuka. Komanso muyenera kudzipatula nokha. Kuchita izi, mafilimu abwino, kapena mabuku abwino. Musasiye kulankhula ndi kudzipatula nokha.
- Phwando la nkhuku . Ngati mkazi asankha kubwezeretsa mwamuna wake kuchokera kwa ambuye mpaka banja, ndiye kuti ayenera kuphunzira kudzikonda yekha ndikudziyang'anira yekha. Choncho, mungathe kuitanira abwenzi anu mwachidule ndikudzidula mokwanira, kuti muiwale za vuto lomwe lachitika. Kuphatikiza apo, ngati abwenziwo ali owona mtima ndi owona mtima, nkotheka kuti iwo sangapereke malangizo abwino okha, komanso amathandizira kumasulira zomwe mukufuna.
- Zogula . Ngati banja likusudzulana, koma atatha kusudzulana mkaziyo akufuna kubwezeretsa mwamuna wake kwa mbuye wake, ndiye kuti ayenera kudziyesa yekha, kusonyeza kuti ali bwino. Mukhoza kupita kukagula ndi kugula zovala zomwe mumazikonda, kuyesera tsitsi, ndikulemba zojambulajambula zomwe zakhala zikufuna kapena kugula zovala zamasewero. Kawirikawiri, chitani zomwe mwafuna kale ndipo yesetsani kuyang'ana modabwitsa.
Malangizo othandiza kwambiri a katswiri wa zamaganizo okhudza kubwezeretsa mwamuna ndikuti mkazi sayenera kuyesa kumuchitira chifundo mwamuna wake m'njira zonse kuti amubwezere.
Panthawiyi, muyenera kuyesetsa kukhala moyo wanunthu ndikuyesera kutaya maganizo anu onse. Yambani kukonza m'nyumba, kusintha mkhalidwe kapena kungopita ku tchuthi. Zonsezi zidzakuthandizani kuchotsa malingaliro onse ovuta. Ngati muwala ndi kukhala moyo wamphumphu, ndiye kuti padzakhala mwayi kuti mwamuna abwerere, akuzindikira kuti wataya. Ndipo ngati ayi-musataye mtima! Pakhomo lina litatsekedwa, ena amatseguka, ndipo ndani akudziwa zomwe zikukuchitikirani pakhomo latsopano?