Anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi funsoli, kaya chikondi chiri kotheka patali, akudikirira malangizo ndi malangizo kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo. Koma kamodzi katswiri wolemba Kuprin ananena mawu olondola kwambiri, omwe mobwerezabwereza anatsimikiziridwa ndi nthawi. Chifukwa cha chikondi chosiyana - mofanana ndi mphepo yamoto: chikondi chofooka - chidzazimitsa, ndipo chachikulu chidzakhudza kwambiri.
Chikondi patali - chochita chiyani?
Ndizovuta komanso zopweteka kuti ukhale wosiyana ndi mitima iwiri yachikondi. Chifukwa nthawi zonse pali chilakolako chowonana, kumva, kuvomereza, kupsompsona. Koma popeza kuti moyo wathu wapangidwa m'njira yoti tifunika kutenga gawo, ndiye kuti tifunika kuvomereza ndikugonjetsa mayesowa.
Zimakhala zovuta kuti muzindikire kupatukana kumene wokondedwa wanu akuwoneka kuti ali, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo sali pafupi. Zimakhala zovuta makamaka ngati mutagwirana ntchito nthawi zonse musanalowe.
Musanapatukane mukambirane zam'tsogolo, funsani ngati pali mwayi umodzi wosunga chikondi chanu, kodi pali ubwino ndi chiopsezo cha ubale umenewo.
Kutalika - osati chotchinga cha chikondi
Kodi chikondi chingatheke patali - ndizotheka, koma ngati:
- Chikondi chimene muli nacho ndi chamagulu ndi chokwanira, mwachitsanzo, ndi kukhalapo kwa kugonana. Masiku ano, achinyamata nthawi zambiri amafuula zakumverera kwakukulu popanda kuyesa. Kulankhulana wina ndi mzake za chikondi, musasokoneze ndi chilakolako. Chisoni ndi chikondi ndizosiyana kwambiri . Popanda chikondi, maubwenzi patali ndi osatheka. Ponena za kugonana, ngati mulibe, palibe chomwe chimakumangani, kotero kwa kanthawi kochepa mumayiwala za kukhalako kwa wina ndi mzake.
- Mukudziwa bwino nthawi yomwe mukugawanika, i.e. tsiku la msonkhano wotsatira. Kawirikawiri, iyi ndi nthawi yofunika kwambiri ya maganizo. Kudziwa tsiku lenileni la kufika kwa wokondedwa, ndi kosavuta kuyembekezera. Mukuzindikira nthawi yambiri musanayambe msonkhano wanu. Atsikana ambiri amakonda kuganiza za momwe tsiku lidzatha pambuyo polekanitsa kwa nthawi yayitali, ndipo nthawi zonse amakumbukira masiku asanafike.
- Inu mumadalirana wina ndi mzake. Popanda kukhulupirirana, simungapambane, mtunda udzapha chikondi. Kuchokera pachiyambi, nsanje idzayamba, yomwe idzayendetsa bwino ndikukangana ndi kumenyana. Ndipo kukangana kawirikawiri kumayambitsa kuthetsa kwathunthu mgwirizano.