Momwe mungaphunzitsire mwamuna wanu chifukwa cha kulemekeza - malangizo a akatswiri a maganizo

Aliyense akulakalaka kumvetsetsa, kuvomereza momwe alili, kuthandizidwa ndi kuthandizidwa pa zovuta. Zokhumba izi ndizofunikira kwambiri pa ubale wa banja. Ndicho chifukwa chake sizosangalatsa pamene mamembala amayamba kusonyeza kusakondana ndi kulemekeza wina ndi mnzake.

Chifukwa cha zikhalidwe zawo zamaganizo ndi zamaganizo, amuna amakhala oposa amayi kuti asamalemekeze anzawo. Oimira abambo okondana amatha kulekerera kwa nthawi yaitali, koma amayamba kufunafuna malangizo kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo momwe angaphunzitsire mwamuna wawo ulemu.

Malangizo a akatswiri a zamaganizo momwe angaphunzitsire munthu phunziro losalemekeza

Musanayambe kulemekeza mwamuna wake, ndi bwino kulingalira ngati akuchita izi mwachindunji kapena chizoloŵezi chomwe chachitika kuyambira ali mwana. Ngati kulemekeza ndi kunyalanyaza kumachokera ku nthawi yake yakale, ndiye kuleza mtima n'kofunikira kuti munthu azindikire khalidwe lake lolakwika.

Zinthu zoipitsitsa ndizo, ngati munthu amanyalanyaza mosamala, kusonyeza kuti ali m'nyumba ya mwiniwake ndipo ali ndi ufulu wochita zomwe akufuna. Ngati mkazi akuganiza kubwezera mwamuna wake chifukwa cha kulemekeza, angagwiritse ntchito malangizo awa:

1. Lengezani kusuntha. Kawirikawiri "kusewera chete" kumathandiza munthu kumvetsa kuti chinachake chikulakwika.
2. Musagone naye. Kawirikawiri mausiku angapo amakhala okwanira kuti mwamuna asamakhumudwitse.
3. Chitani monga momwe amachitira, kutsatira mfundo ya "diso kwa diso". Ngati mwamunayo sanabwerere kuntchito, atayenda ndi abwenzi, mukhoza kubwereza khalidwe lake tsiku lotsatira, ndikusiya cholemba ndi mawu akuti: "Ndikumvana, ndinasankha kuyenda ndi anzanga ..."
4. Chilango chachikulu ndikutaya wokondedwa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati munthu amakonda kudya madzulo pamodzi, achoke panyumbamo. Ngati amakonda chakudya chokoma - musachiphike. Pali mfundo yochititsa chidwi kwambiri: makamaka pamene mkazi ndi mwamuna wake ali ndi phwando losangalatsa, zomwe mungasankhe, momwe mungalangizire mwamuna wanu chifukwa chosamlemekeza mkazi wanu.
5. Lekani kutsuka ndi kuyanika. Posapita nthawi, zidzamveka bwino kuti mumakwiya kwambiri.
6. Siyani ana kwa mwamuna wake ndipo mupite bizinesi, paulendo wamalonda. Masiku angapo okha ndi ana amatha kukhumudwitsa munthu aliyense.

Komabe, njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera khalidwe ngati simukulemekeza banja ndikuwonetsa khalidwe loyenera, kuleza mtima, kukambirana, kufotokozera ndikufufuza zolakwitsa. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri m'banja ndicho kusunga zinthu zabwino. Nthawi idzadutsa, ndipo mwamuna adzakhala wochepetsetsa komanso wokoma mtima, chifukwa chisonkhezero chabwino cha mkazi chidzakachepetsa mtima wamantha.