Cholinga

Aliyense posakhalitsa amakumana ndi zochitika za moyo zomwe zimafuna kuti asonyeze kutsimikiza ndi kudziimira pakupanga zosankha zina.

Muzovuta, munthu wofooka akhoza kusokonezeka, kukayikirana wina ndi mzake mumutu mwake. Iye akugonjetsedwa ndi chikhumbo chochotsa udindo, kulandira kutsimikiziridwa kwa kulondola kwa zosankha zopangidwa ndi ena. Koma chifukwa cha kukayikira, nthawi zina sangathe kukhala olimba mtima pakupanga chisankho. Makhalidwe otsimikiza amachitanso mogwirizana ndi malingaliro kapena mau amkati ndikupanga zosankha zonse ndi ufulu wonse, kumvetsetsa kuti nkofunikira kuti achite zinazake.

Chinthu chofunika koposa chokhudza kusasintha

Kusokoneza maganizo m'maganizo ndi khalidwe la munthu aliyense, lomwe limakhudzana ndi kuthekera kwake kupanga zosankha payekha ndi kupanga zosankha m'kupita kwa nthawi, kuyesera kuzizindikira pa ntchitoyo. Munthu wodzipereka, kulimbana ndi zolinga zake kumatha kumapeto ndi kukhazikitsidwa kwa chisankho chotsimikizika.

Kukwanitsa kusonyeza khama ndi khalidwe la munthu amene angathe kupanga zisankho ndi nzeru ndi udindo ndi ufulu ndi udindo.

Phindu la kutsimikiza

Kulimba mtima ndi kutsimikiza kungapangitse chilango mwa munthu panthawi yomweyo ndipo nthawi yomweyo zimakulolani kuchita zinthu zopanda nzeru, zomwe nthawi zina sitingamvetsetse kwa ena.

• Amapatsa munthu mwayi wokwaniritsa zolinga zawo popanda kuzindikira zovuta pa njira yopambana.
• Mothandizidwa ndi khalidweli, munthu wodalirika amakhala ndi chidaliro pa zochita zake ndi zosankha zake.
• kulimba mtima, molimbika, kumapatsa munthu aliyense kukhulupirira mphamvu zawo panthawi zovuta.
• zimathandiza kuchotsa mndandanda wa zokayikitsa, zosakayikira ndi kukayikira, zomwe zimamasula chikhulupiriro mwa iwoeni.
• Chifukwa cha kutsimikiza mtima, zotsatira zake zimayenda bwino.

Cholinga pa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku

Kulimba mtima ndi kutsimikiza pa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku kumathandiza kumvetsetsa kuti chilichonse chiri ndi zinthu zabwino, chirichonse chingasinthidwe, chifukwa kudzidziwitsa nokha ndi moyo kumathandiza kumvetsa momwe aliyense wa ife angakhalire wolimba mtima, wotsimikiza. Nazi zitsanzo za zinthu zina zomwe zingakuthandizeni kumvetsa kuti tsiku lililonse tsiku liri ndi mwayi wonyada ndi chimwemwe, chifukwa cha zochita zodziwika ndi zovuta za anthu.

1. Kuchokera pazochita za oyendetsa ndege, madalaivala onse, madokotala amadalira miyoyo ya ena. Ndipo, panthawi yovuta kwambiri dokotala wa opaleshoni amapanga chisankho cholondola mosakayikira, n'kosatheka kuti asadzitamande.
2. Masewera olimbitsa thupi ochokera kwa othamanga awo nthawi zonse amafunikira khama ndi kulimba mtima.
3. Ngakhale pazochita za omwe akulowa kumeneko pali kutsimikiza. Posankha ntchito yake yam'mbuyo, ngakhale kuti akulephera, amakwaniritsa mwamphamvu cholinga chake, akudziŵa bwino granite ya sayansi kuti akwaniritse zomwe wapanga.

Kodi mungakonzekere bwanji?

Munthu sanabadwe molimba mtima, iye amakhala amodzi. Kukula kwa chidziwitso kumadalira chifuniro cha munthu mwiniyo, pofuna kulola ufulu ndi udindo pa kupanga chisankho.

Ganizirani mfundo zomwe zingakuthandizeni kukhala ndi mtima wolimba:

1. Osakhala waulesi kuti uzigwira ntchito pawekha. Phunzirani kuthana ndi mavuto aliwonse, yesani kufooka kulikonse monga mwayi wopanga chisankho chanu. Mkuntho imatenga zomwe zikuwoneka kuti ziripo choyamba kupenya chosasunthika.
2. Sungani malingaliro. Muyenera kukhala ndi chizindikiro. Chifukwa cha zolinga zomwe zili panjira yanu, mungathe kugonjetsa zolephera, ndikukulitsa chidziwitso pazomwe mukupita kuti mukwaniritse mimba.
3. Mvetserani kwa mawu anu amkati, intuition yanu. Osangokhalira kukhudzidwa ndi malingaliro a ena ndipo inu mudzaphunzitsa kudzipereka mwa inu nokha.

Kotero, kutsimikiza sikovuta kwambiri kuti tikule. Ndizofunikira kuti mukhale oleza mtima komanso nthawizonse, ziribe kanthu, kukhulupirira ndi mphamvu zanu.