Lingaliro la kugwirizana kwa maganizo linapatsidwa ufulu wokhalapo kudzera mu ubale weniweni. Kugwirizana kwa maganizo ndi chikhalidwe cha kugwirizana kwa nthawi yaitali pakati pa anthu awiri kapena kuposerapo, momwe mawonetseredwe a zikhalidwe za anthuwa samatsogolere kutsutsana kwa nthawi yaitali. Tsatanetsatane iyi, yomwe imaperekedwa mu Wikipedia, sichitha bwino kuwonetsa kuti chomwe chikuchitika chomwe tikuchiganizira.
Kugwirizana kumudzi
Mu ubale uliwonse, khalani ubale ndi abambo, akuluakulu, abwenzi, gawo lofunika lomwe limasewera ndi kumvetsetsa. Kulumikizana kwa maganizo kumaphatikizapo kugwirizana, kufanana. Apa ndi pamene malemba ndi mawonedwe sakukondana, koma amathandizana. Mu gulu la anthu ena, ife nthawi zonse timakhala ndi zotsatira za kugwirizana kwa maganizo. Mlengalenga mkati mwa gululo ndi zotsatira za ntchito iliyonse yogwirizanitsa makamaka zimadalira kukula kwa maganizo. Gulu lirilonse, gululo liripo mwa chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe cha anthu. Zimaphatikizapo zolinga zamakhalidwe ndi zikhalidwe, malingaliro kwa ntchito ndi makomera, zolinga za zochita, komanso zida za malo osungiramo maganizo a aliyense wa gululi.
Mtundu wina wa kugwirizana kwa maganizo ndi kugwirizana kwa maganizo. Zimagwirizana ndi zakuthupi ndi zakuthupi (chitukuko cha chitukuko cha nzeru ndi magalimoto). Pano ife tikukamba za mawonetseredwe ofanana a njira zamaganizo ndi digiri imodzi yophunzitsira anthu mu izi kapena luso lina luso ndi luso.
Kugwirizana kwa maganizo ndi zinthu zodabwitsa, zomwe ziri ndi zotsatirazi: pamene anthu ambiri ali ofanana mu chikhalidwe, mwayi waukulu wa kugwirizana ndi kusagwirizana kwa anthuwa. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, anthu ambiri ali ofanana, zosavuta kuti iwo apeze chinenero chofala. Komabe, mwayi wokondana ndi wapamwamba. Ichi ndi chinthu chachilendo, mgwirizano ...
Kugwirizana m'banja
Inde, kugwirizana kwa maganizo a mamembala ndikofunika kwambiri kusiyana ndi anthu osadziwika komanso osadziwika bwino. Banja ndi chinthu chamtengo wapatali kwambiri chomwe munthu aliyense ali nacho pamoyo wake. Ngati sitingasankhe makolo, ndipo nkhani yotsatizanayi siiyeneranso, ndiye kuti tifunika kukambirana za momwe anthu okwatirana amagwirizanirana, komanso kudziwa bwino nkhaniyi n'kofunika kwambiri.
Cholinga chachikulu chaukwati ndi kukhazikitsa mgwirizano wokondwa. Tabadwa kuti tipeze chimwemwe, ndi m'manja mwathu. Kumvetsetsa wina ndi mzake okwatirana ndi chiyanjano wina ndi mzake ndichinthu chofunikira pa kukhazikika kwa maukwati. Choncho, ndi zophweka kuganiza kuti kusagwirizana kwa maganizo kumabwera chifukwa chosakhudzidwa kumvetsetsa mzake komanso kuyesa khalidwe lawo. Mu mgwirizano waukwati ndikofunika kumvetsetsa ma multilayeredness of psychological compatibility. Maganizo, makhalidwe abwino, auzimu, kugonana - izi ndizomwe zimagwirizana ndi maganizo omwe chidzaloledwe. Mukamayendera bwino izi, ndibwino kuti okwatirana azikhala bwino. Pamene mwamuna ndi mkazi wake ali ndi maphwando apamtima komanso zofunikanso, zimakhudza kwambiri maganizo awo.
Kulumikizana pakati pa banja kumatsimikiziridwa ndi zifukwa zingapo zazikulu zokhudzana ndi maganizo:
- mbali yamaganizo ya chikwati chaukwati, mlingo wothandizana wina ndi mzake;
- chikhalidwe chofala
mlingo wa okwatirana, mlingo wa kukula kwawo maganizo ndi chikhalidwe chawo; - kugonana kwa abwenzi.
Kupambana kapena kulephera muukwati kumakonzeratu mikhalidwe ya wokwatirana, pa chitukuko ndi ulamuliro umene aliyense ali nawo.
Mavuto a maganizo, ngati angakonde, angathe kuthetsedwa. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kudziyesa nokha, kukhazikitsa makhalidwe ena mwa inu nokha, ndikuyesa kuchotsa ena. Chinthu chofunikira kukumbukira ndikuti zonsezi mumachita mwachikondi, mtendere ndi chimwemwe chenicheni.