Mu moyo wathu, pali mitundu yosiyana, mitundu ndi mitundu yodalirika, zomwe zambiri sizikufuna chithandizo chapadera.
Komabe, kudalira maganizo ndi matenda amene, mwa mphamvu ya chiwonongeko chake pa munthu, ali ofanana ndi kudalira kwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo, mowa, kusewera ndi chakudya.
Kudalira maganizo pa munthu wina, makamaka chikondi cha kudalira - ndi mkhalidwe wa munthu momwe malingaliro onse amodzi akukhudzidwa ndi zosowa, malingaliro ndi mavuto a wina.
Mtundu wodalirika wodalirika wokhudzana ndi maganizo umakhudza ubale. Mwachitsanzo, kudalira mwamuna kapena wokondedwa.
Ubale umene umakhala ndi kudalira maganizo kwa mwamuna nthawi zambiri ndi wovuta kwambiri, ndipo nthawi zambiri amakangana ndi nsanje . Chifukwa chakuti munthu wodalirika sakufika pofotokoza mkwiyo wake ndi kupweteka, maubwenzi amenewa nthawi zambiri amatsatana ndi zolakwa motsutsana ndi wokondedwa. Wokondedwa wofooka amakumana ndi zonse ndipo mkwiyo umaphatikizapo. Kukhala ndi moyo, komanso zochitika za munthu uyu zimadalira pa theka lachiwiri.
Chofunika cha ubale umenewu ndi chakuti munthu mmodzi (yemwe amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo) amadzimva osakwanira, amangoti adzibweretsere ndi zina, izi ndi nkhani yokhudza moyo ndi imfa basi. Munthu wotereyo ndi wokonzeka kupirira ubwenzi uliwonse ndi iye mwini, malinga ngati sakanidwa ndipo sakhala yekha.
Ubale wotere uli pamapeto, nthawi zambiri amasokonezeka, koma kudalira kumakhalabe. Simungathe kumangoganiza za munthu, kudandaula za iye, ndi kusonkhanitsa zambiri za iye nthawi zonse.
Mmene mungagwirire ndi kudalira maganizo?
Simungathe kutuluka mofulumira. Choyamba, yesetsani kupeza ufulu watsopano, ndipo yambani kumanga moyo wanu nokha. Osabisala kwa abwenzi ndi okondedwa kuti muli ndi chikhulupiliro pa munthu (mwamuna, mkazi, makolo). Afunseni chithandizo ndikukupemphani kuti mumvetsere. Komabe, simuyenera kudziimba mlandu nokha kudzitonza nokha, koma zofanana, ndi bwino kufufuza zolakwa zanu mu chiyanjano. Kuphatikizanso apo, mutha kukwanitsa tsiku lanu pochita zinthu zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuti musokonezeke pakuganizira za wokondedwa wanu. Mwapadera, pamene abwenzi ndi achibale sangathe kuthandizira, muyenera kupita kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Ndipo kotero, kuwononga kudalira komwe mukufunikira kuti mupeze atsopano kapena kulimbikitsa, ntchito yanu, komanso muyenera kusinthana mauthenga kwa abwenzi kapena anthu atsopano.