Tsoka ilo, palibe ndondomeko yeniyeni yomwe mungakope chidwi cha munthu amene mumamukonda. Chilichonse chimadalira maonekedwe osiyanasiyana, tidzayesa kupereka malangizo omwe angathandize pa nkhaniyi.
Amayi amamvetsera ndi chiyani?
Choyamba, musaiwale kuti amuna amakonda maso, choncho mkazi aliyense amene akufuna kutchera khutu, ayenera kuyang'anitsitsa maonekedwe ake. Zovala ziyenera kusankhidwa kuti zigwirizane nazo, kubisala zolephera za chiwerengerocho, ngati zilipo. Chithunzichi chiyenera kusankhidwa molingana ndi muyeso, mkazi ayenera kukhala womasuka komanso wodalirika. Musabvala chovala choipa, ngakhale chiwerengero chanu chiri changwiro. Manicure, make-up and hairstyle ayenera kufanana ndi fano lanu, ndipo malizitsani fungo lake losangalatsa. Kuyang'ana kwa mkazi kungakhale kokondweretsa, ndipo kumwetulira mochokera pansi pamtima kungakuyendetseni misala. Masekondi asanu okha ndi okwanira kuti ayang'ane mu maso aakazi, mwamunayo amatha kudziwa ngati kuli koyenera kuyambitsa chidziwitso ichi.
Nchiyani chimakopa chidwi cha amuna kapena akazi kusiyana ndi maonekedwe? Inde, khalidwe. Momwe mkazi amachitira pokambirana ndi anthu, momwe amadzidalira yekha komanso ngati angathe kumvetsetsa zokambiranazo. Ndikofunika kutsogoleredwa mu phunziro losankhidwa ndi interlocutor, monga munthu aliyense amasangalalira akamvetsera. Ndibwino kuti nthawi yolankhulirana ikhale yovuta kwambiri kumudziwa munthu, za ntchito yake, zokondweretsa, zingakhale zabwino kupeza nkhani zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pokambirana.
Kodi mungapeze bwanji chidwi cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?
Chilankhulo cha manja chidzabwera moyenera . Mukamalankhulana, simuyenera kudutsa manja ndi miyendo yanu, kayendetsedwe kameneko kadzanena za kutsekedwa ndi kusakhudzidwa kuti muyankhule. Kuwongolera pang'ono kumbali yake kudzakonza kuti munthuyo alankhule. Kuonjezeranso zokhudzana ndi kugonana, mukhoza kumeta tsitsi pang'ono ndikusiya kuyang'ana pamilomo yake. Ngati chiyanjano choyamba chinapambana, izi sizikutanthauza kuti munthuyo ndi wanu. Ndikofunika nthawi ndi nthawi kuti aoneke mosayembekezeka m'malo omwe nthawi zambiri zimachitika, mwachitsanzo, ku masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena kusambira.
Kodi mungakope bwanji chidwi cha mwamuna wokwatira?
Mtima, monga akunena, sungathe kulamulira, ukhoza kukonda mwamuna wokwatira. Pachifukwa ichi ndikofunikira kuti mudziwe ngati mudzamenyera nkhondoyo, kapena kuti muthamangire bwino. Amuna angathe kugawidwa mu mitundu itatu: osamvera, don Juan ndi okondedwa, omwe ali ndi njira yake yeniyeni. Zimakhala zovuta kuti munthu wosamvera akhulupirire, iye ndi wotsutsana ndi zinthu zachikondi. Njira yopita kumtima wa munthu wotero ndi kudzera mu ubwenzi. Ndi Don Juan, chirichonse chiri chophweka kwambiri, iye adzakondwera kuvomereza kuyanjana koletsedwa, ndizochepa chabe za zolinga zanu. Mtundu wachitatu wa munthu uli pachikondi ndi mwamuna wake wovomerezeka, ndipo kuchotsa munthu wotere m'banja sikophweka. Ndikofunika kuti ukhale bwenzi la iye, ayenera kukukhulupirirani, ndiye kuti nthawi yake, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kungakhale
Mmene mungakope chidwi cha poyamba?
Kukopa chidwi cha munthu wakale kapena mwamuna ndi ntchito yovuta. Zonse zimatengera zifukwa ndi oyambitsa magawano, komanso kuzama kwa malingaliro omwe agwirizana nanu. Mulimonsemo, popanda zizolowezi za amai muzochitikazi sangathe kuchita. Ndikofunika kugwira ntchito nthawi zonse pa maonekedwe anu ndi chifaniziro, muyenera kupitiriza kuchokera kukongola, chithumwa ndi kudzidalira. Mkazi woteroyo adzakonda amuna ambiri, ndipo, kotero, akhoza kukhala ngati oyambirira. Msonkhano wanu uyenera kukhala wosasamala. Kuti sakukukhudzani, musamafuule pa ngodya iliyonse, mumusonyeze kuti kumverera kumagwirizana pokhapokha mutalandira kuchokera kwa munthuyo zizindikiro zina za chidwi.