Zakhala zikudziwika kuti zambiri zowonjezereka zikhoza kuphunzitsidwa kuchokera ku chinenero cha manja cha anthu kusiyana ndi kukambirana kwachibadwa. Zizindikiro zidzatulutsa mtima weniweni, ngakhale pamene munthu abisala. Kudziwa thupi ndi manja a anthu, simungoganiza chabe zomwe interlocutor akuganiza, komanso zolinga zake. Ndipo izi, muyenera kuvomereza, zidzakuthandizira pazochitika zilizonse. Choncho, tiyeni tiyerekeze njira zingapo zomwe zingathandize mkazi aliyense kulingalira za khalidwe lake la mtsogolo:
Zisonyezo za anyamata, zomwe zikutanthauza chifundo
Pamaso pa chinthu chomvetsa chisoni, mnyamatayo amasintha zovala zake, amadula kapena amukuta tsitsi lake, mosamala kwambiri amayesa kuwoneka bwino. Pa zoyesayesa zake zoyandikana, kuyambika kwake kwa danga lanu komanso mutu womwe mumakhala kumbali yanu umalankhula pamene mukukambirana. Kusuta kumakhudza kusonyeza chidwi chake mwa iwe.
Chizindikiro cha kumvetsetsa bwino kwa oyankhulana ndi kufanana kwa zochitika ndi kachitidwe ka kuyankhulana. Munthu akamasindikiza kayendetsedwe kanu - zosankha ziwiri, kapena amakukonzerani mwadala kapena ayi. Koma mulimonsemo ndi zabwino, iye amapita kwa olankhulana.
Kusakhala ndi chidwi mwa mwamuna mu chinenero chamanja
Nthawi zina pambuyo pa tsiku loyamba msungwanayo atayika moganizira, bwanji mnyamatayo samutcha. Koma ngati amadziwa kumvetsetsa zizindikiro za mnyamata, akanazindikira kuti sakonda. Choncho, ngati munthuyo wasokonezeka, sagwirizana nawe mkati, zokambirana zimakhala zolemetsa kwa iye, amaganiza za momwe angathamangire mwamsanga, mudzawona manja awa: kugwira khutu, kusunga chingwe ndi chikhato chake, masokosi a miyendo yake adzawatsogolera kumtunda . Chifuwa chimanenedwa ndi kugwidwa ndi phazi lake pansi, kumamenya chitsime cha kasupe, kukonza pepala ndikuwoneka wopanda kanthu. Pa maonekedwe anu, iye amapyola manja ake kapena miyendo - mulibe mwayi, sakuwona mwa inu mkazi ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi.
Amanama M'chinenero Chamanja cha Anthu
Podziwa kuti zizindikiro za mnyamata zimatanthauza chiyani, mungathe kudziwa nthawi yomwe angayambe. Dzanja lake limatambasula pakamwa pake kapena limakhudza mphuno yake, pa zokambirana zanu, mosakayikira simuyenera kudalira zomwe zinanenedwa. Munthu akulankhula zabodza, amayang'ana kutali, nthawi zina amayang'anitsitsa maso anu kuti atsimikizire kuti mumamukhulupirira. Wonyenga wosadziwa adzasintha, kutembenuza zokambiranazo kukhala mutu wina, kutulutsa zinthu zakunja m'manja mwake. Wonyenga ndi zovuta kuti musaphonye zomwe mumachita, mmalo mwake, adzayang'anitsitsa mosamala. Pankhaniyi, nthawi zambiri amawombera kapena kuwombera.
Kutanthauzira chinenero cha manja cha amuna chiyenera kukhala cholondola kwambiri, chifukwa manja ena ali ndi tanthawuzo kawiri. Mwachitsanzo, mantha ndi kuyang'ana sizingasonyeze bodza - khalidwe lomwelo lidzakhala la munthu wamanyazi ndi wopepuka. Ndizosamvetseka kumvetsa munthu pofufuza zomwe amachita.
Kuti mumvetse machitidwe a anyamatawa, panthawi yawo yopanda pake ayang'ane anthu omwe amawazungulira, ayese zochitika zawo. Kotero inu mukhoza kuwona momwe anthu amagwiritsira ntchito ngakhale ndi manja pang'ono ndi mawonekedwe a nkhope. Kuti muphunzitse kulingalira, zovuta zosavuta zingagwiritsidwe ntchito. Sinthani TV popanda phokoso ndipo yang'anani pa zokambirana pazenera. Onetsetsani kutsanzira ndi zochitika za oyankhulana. Yesani kulingalira zomwe zokambiranazo zikukhudza, ndipo malo anu ndi otani. Patapita kanthawi, mukhoza kutsegula phokoso ndikudziyesa nokha. Poyamba
Kupatsa munthu chiwonetsero cha nkhope imodzi kumbali yokha kapena ziwiri zapadera sizikanakhala zolondola. Ndikofunikira kuti anthu onse adziŵe bwino thupi lonse ndikupeza mapeto a zizindikiro zonse.