Chisa chiribe kutanthauzira kosasunthika komanso kuti mudziwe zambiri zowona kuti ndizofunikira kuti muwone bwinobwino malotowa poganizira zonse. Ndikofunika kukumbukira chomwe chinthucho chinkawoneka, zomwe munachita ndi zina zotero.
Kodi tsitsi la tsitsili limawoneka bwanji?
Mmodzi mwa mabuku a malotowo amapereka chitsimikizo kuti chisa ndi chizindikiro cha kukhumudwa ndi mavuto m'banja. Kwa mtsikana wamng'ono, malotowo akulosera kutayika kwa ndalama zambiri chifukwa chachinyengo. Kwa mnyamata malotowo ndi chizindikiro cha kukhumudwa mwa wokondedwa. Chitsa cha matabwa ndi chisonyezero chakuti posachedwa mudzafika pa cholinga chanu.
Kuti muwone momwe munthu wina amagwiritsira ntchito chisa chanu, ndiye kuti posachedwa mudzadziŵa munthu yemwe angakhale mnzanu wokhulupirika kapena mdani wamkulu. Tsitsi pa chisa mu maloto ndi chizindikiro chosavomerezeka, mwinamwake, iwe udzakhala wolakwira wa zinthu zomwe zidzasintha moyo wa munthu wina poipa kwambiri. Ngati pali mano ambiri mu chisa, ndiye, kwenikweni, khalidwe lanu lidzabweretsa miseche yambiri. Chisa, chosungunulidwa ndi tsitsi ndi chiwonetsero cha mavuto osiyanasiyana.
Kodi tsitsi la tsitsi losweka likuwoneka bwanji?
Ngati muwona kuti mano akuphwanyidwa pa chisa - ichi ndi chizindikiro cha kukhalapo kukayikira ndi zochitika zomwe zingasokoneze kwambiri mapulani omwe alipo. Maloto enawo akhoza kutanthauziridwa ngati chiwonetsero cha nthawi yosangalatsa m'moyo. Pofuna kulota chisa chimene chaphwanya pamene mukung'amba tsitsi lanu, ndiye kuti mtsogolomu mukhoza kukhala ndi matenda aakulu.
N'chifukwa chiyani kachilombo ka tsitsi kamalota?
Kugonana kwabwino, maloto oterowo amaloza kuti chibwenzi chiyambike. Ngati mutagula tsitsi lakumutu m'maloto, ndiye kuti muyenera kudzikonzekera nokha kusintha kwa moyo wanu, ndipo khalidwe lawo lidalira maonekedwe a chinthucho.