Ambiri amadziwa kuti pali chizindikiro chakuti kuswa chikho kuti chisangalale, koma sikuti aliyense amvetsetsa chomwe chiri chofunikira kudikirira ngati chochitika choterocho chikuchitika.
Kodi chikho chosweka chimatanthauza chiani?
Malinga ndi zikhulupiliro, nkofunikira kutanthauzira chochitika ichi pamaziko a zochitika zina za mkhalidwewo. Mwachitsanzo, malinga ndi kalata, ngati mutaswa chikho mwadzidzidzi, ndiye kuti palibe choipa chomwe chidzachitike, mtsogolo, m'pofunika kuyembekezera uthenga wabwino, kupambana kwa ndalama kapena kuchotsa ntchito. Koma, chiyembekezo cha izi ndi kokha ngati mutangosonkhanitsa zidutswazo ndikuziponya kutali, mwinamwake zonse zidzakhala zosiyana. Makolo athu amakhulupirira kuti mbale yosweka kapena yosweka sayenera kusungidwa m'nyumba, ndipo ngakhale choletsedwa kumwa. Malingana ndi zizindikilo, kumwera kuchokera ku chikho chosweka ndi kuwononga thanzi lanu ndi chimwemwe chanu. Agogo achikulire amayesa kuchotsa zigawozo mofulumira, ndipo sanazisunge, ngakhale mbalezo zinali zapadera kwa iwo, mwachitsanzo, zoperekedwa mwambo wapadera kapena wotsika mtengo.
Palinso chizindikiro chimene chimalonjeza kuswa chikho chakonde makamaka. Kuchita izi molingana ndi zikhulupiriro ndizoopsa, kotero ngakhale pamakangano, yesetsani kusamba mbale. Ngati mumakhulupirira makolo athu, ndiye kuti mumaphwanya chikho kapena galasi mwadala, mumasokoneza banja lanu, ndiye kuti mukumenyana kwapakhomo kumayamba, kumvetsetsa kumatha. Makamaka sakulimbikitsidwa kuti amenyane ndi zida zomwe zimagwiridwa kapena kuperekedwa kukwatirana, ali ndi mphamvu yapadera yomwe imateteza nyumba ku mavuto, komanso chikondi kuchokera ku nsanje za anthu ena. Mwadala mwawononga zakudya zoterozo, inunso, mutsegule khomo la mdima ndikupatseni mwayi adani anu kuti asokoneze maubwenzi anu apamtima.