Chibadwa cha anthu chimakhala ndi maonekedwe ambiri. Maganizo a umunthu wa aliyense wa ife ndiyekha, mwa njira yakeyi yapadera. Izi zimatsimikiziranso kuti palibe anthu omwe ali ndi dziko lomwelo. Munthu aliyense ali wapadera, pachiyambi, chifukwa ndi chiwerengero chokha cha makhalidwe ake omwe ali ndi chibadwa mwa iye.
Munthu ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi makhalidwe osiyana siyana omwe amakhala nawo m'moyo wake wonse. Nthawi zina zokha zimaonekera. Pali makhalidwe awiri akuluakulu: maganizo ndi chikhalidwe. Za izi ndikuyankhula mwatsatanetsatane.
Mapangidwe a maganizo ndi umunthu
Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti pansi pa mawonekedwe aumwini ndizozoloŵera kufotokoza mndandanda wa zosasinthika katundu zomwe zikuwonetsedwa kudzera muzochita, zosankha za munthu m'mikhalidwe yosiyanasiyana ya moyo. Akatswiri a zamaganizo, izi zimagawidwa kukhala mitundu itatu:
- cholinga;
- mikhalidwe;
- luso, luso kapena luso.
Muzinthu zonsezi, zomwe ndizofunikira zigawo za maganizo a munthu aliyense, mawonetseredwe ali olakwika pa chikhalidwe cha umunthu. Koma amalipidwa ndi ubwino wina umene uli mthupi lathu.
Kapangidwe kameneko kakuyimira maonekedwe ena aumwini, malingaliro ake enieni, chikhalidwe, luso, malingaliro, zolinga, khalidwe. Ngati tilankhula za izi mwatsatanetsatane, ndiye mu psychology, zomwe zimagwirizana ndi momwe mungatchulire munthuyo ndi:
- munthu wodziimira yekha;
- analingalira mwanzeru - ali ndi nzeru zochepa;
- wolimba - munthu wamantha;
- kulekerera, kusamala - kusasamala;
- olimba - okondwa;
- zabwino-zachilengedwe - zamatsenga;
- kuwona mtima - chinyengo;
- Kusinthasintha kwa kulingalira, ubwenzi - achipongwe, opusitsa;
- kukhudzidwa - kunyalanyaza;
- zochitika zenizeni - autism;
- kufotokoza - kupezeka;
- kuwona mtima - kusakhulupirika;
- kutsegula - chinsinsi;
- umunthu wodzidalira - wosatetezeka;
- okalamba - ubwana;
- chilango - kusakaza kwa malingaliro;
- wokondwa, wokondwa - wosimidwa, wokhumudwa;
- zofewa - zopusa;
- Kulankhulirana - wosagwirizana;
- Kukoma mtima ndiko kudzikonda kwa umunthu;
- malingaliro okoma - kukhumudwa;
- ntchito - kukhwima.
Tiyenera kudziwa kuti pali zitsanzo zambiri za mawonekedwe a maganizo a munthu. Pofuna kuchikonzekera, m'pofunika kudalira makhalidwe awa:
- Pafupi zaka, chikhalidwe cha anthu chidzanena: manja , mawonekedwe a zovala.
- Chikhalidwe chaumunthu chikuwululidwa: mawonekedwe a nkhope, manja, zizindikiro za kulankhula.
- Ponena za ntchito: mawu omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito panthawi yolankhulana.
- Pa dziko, malo okhala: kutchulidwa.
- Pazofunikira za munthu payekha, mfundo zake: zomwe zili m'mawu ake.
Chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe cha anthu
Mu chikhalidwe ichi, umunthu umayesedwa mogwirizana ndi ntchito yake m'dera. Zotsatira zake, tiyeni titi, za moyo wake wa chikhalidwe, zikhalidwe zina zimakhalapo, makhalidwe omwe amasonyeza panthawi yolumikizana ndi ena. Sizingakhale zodabwitsa kunena kuti dongosololi limaphatikizapo chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu (chidziwitso cha luso, luso, chidziwitso chodziwitsa), udindo wa chikhalidwe (wopangidwa ndi chikhalidwe cha moyo wa munthu), malingaliro (kuzindikira za mkati ndi kunja dziko), chidziwitso cha dziko lapansi kudzera mu malingaliro, zowawa, ndi zina zotero)