Kodi ndingagonepo kugonana pa nthawi ya mimba?

Panthawi ya kuyembekezera mwana, makolo am'tsogolo akuopa kumuvulaza ndi zosachita zawo ndipo kawirikawiri pa chifukwa chimenechi amakana kugonana. Pakalipano, kukhala osakwatirana kwa nthawi yayitali sikuti onse okwatirana, ndipo, monga lamulo, muyeso woterewu ulibe nzeru.

M'nkhani ino, tikukuuzeni ngati n'zotheka kugonana pa nthawi ya mimba nthawi zonse, ndipo nthawi zina ndi bwino kukana kugonana pakati pa okwatirana nthawiyi.

Kodi ndingagonepo pogonana nditangoyamba kumene?

Mkazi akamangozindikira kuti ali ndi pakati, nthawi zambiri alibe funso, ndingathe kugonana. Izi zili choncho chifukwa mayi wam'tsogolo akuopa kuvulaza mwana wake ndipo amakana mwaufulu kuti azikhala pachibwenzi. Kuonjezera apo, poti pulogalamu ya progesterone imakula, kugonana kwa mkazi kumachepa kwambiri ndipo nthawi zina kumatha kwathunthu.

Momwemonso, madokotala amalangiza amuna kuti asavulaze "hafu" yawo ndikuzunzika mpaka nthawi yomwe mkazi adzizoloŵera mkhalidwe wake watsopano ndipo libido yake idzachira. Ngati chilakolako cha chiyanjano ndi mayi wamtsogolo chikhalabe pamlingo wofanana kapena chiwonjezere pang'ono, chitani chikondi kumayambiriro kwa nthawi yolindira mwanayo, koma pokhapokha ngati palibe zotsutsana ndi izi:

• kuwopsa kwa kusokonezeka;
• Kutentha kwa chiberekero kapena mapiritsi ;
• ululu m'mimba m'munsi mwa khalidwe lokoka, likuwonekera pa chifukwa china;
• kuperewera kwa chiberekero;
• njira yothandizira matenda alionse opatsirana omwe ali ndi njira yopatsira anthu kugonana.

Zotsutsana zonsezi zingathe kuletsa kugonana, osati kumayambiriro kwa mimba, koma m'kati mwake. Ndicho chifukwa chake, ngati muli ndi chimodzi mwazifukwazi, simungayambe kugonana popanda chilolezo cha dokotala yemwe akupezekapo, mosasamala kanthu za nthawiyo.

Ndi miyezi ingati yomwe mwayamba kutenga mimba?

The trimester yachiwiri ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri ya ubale wapamtima pakati pa makolo amtsogolo. Monga lamulo, kuyambira mwezi wachinayi mpaka wachisanu ndi chimodzi wa mimba, amayi amamva bwino kwambiri ndipo amayamba kusonyeza chilakolako cha kugonana kwa mwamuna wake.

Monga mu trimester yoyamba, mukhoza kupanga chikondi panthawiyi ndi chilolezo cha dokotala yemwe akupezekapo ndipo pokhapokha ngati palibe kutsutsana kwa izi. Ngakhale zili choncho, nthawi zambiri amayi amasiye saika chibwenzi cholimba pakati pa trimester yachiwiri, kotero aŵiriwo amakhala ndi mwayi wokonda chikondi atasiya kudziletsa kwa nthawi yaitali.

Pakali pano, madzulo a kubadwa koyambirira, makolo omwe akuyembekezeredwa akulimbikitsidwanso nthawi yoti asiye ubale wapamtima. Poyankha funsoli, amayi angapo omwe ali ndi pakati amatha kuchita chiwerewere, madokotala ambiri amatcha miyezi 7-8.

Choletsa ichi chikhoza kufotokozedwa ndi kuti mimba ya abambo imakhala ndi prostaglandin yomwe imalimbikitsa kutsegula ndi kutsegula kwa chiberekero, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti zingayambitse kubereka msanga. Komabe, ngati pali chikhumbo cha mayi wam'tsogolo ndipo palibe kutsutsana, panthawi ino, mungathe kupanga chikondi pogwiritsa ntchito kondomu. Ngati nthawi yomwe mwanayo akukumana ndi makolo ake yayandikira kale, ndipo kubadwa kwake sikuchitika, mothandizidwa ndi kuyandikana kwambiri, mosiyana, munthu akhoza kufulumizitsa njira yawo.

Ndi kangati omwe mungagonepo nthawi yogonana?

Funso lina limene makolo ambiri amakumana nawo, omwe sagwirizana ndi chibwenzi, ndiloti nthawi zambiri munthu angapange chikondi pamene mwana akuyembekezera. Ndipotu, ngati dokotala samaletsa, kuchuluka kwa kugonana pa nthawi ya mimba, makamaka mu trimester yachiwiri, kungakhale kulikonse.

Chinthu chachikulu ndikuchita izi pokhapokha ngati amayi omwe akuyembekezera akufuna kukhala pachibwenzi, osati motsutsana ndi zofuna zake. Ngati mayi wapakati ali wokonzeka kuchita zogonana kangapo patsiku, ndipo chifukwa cha izi palibe zoletsa pa umoyo, palibe chifukwa chokana kukondana. Pakalipano, panthawi yogonana, muyenera kuyang'anitsitsa momwe thupi lanu likuyendera, ndipo mwamsanga muwadziwitse dokotala yemwe akupezeka nawo matenda onse.