Kodi mungatani kuti mnyamata athamangireni?

Mangani munthu wokondedwa payekha ndipo apange kuti amuthandize kwambiri, amayi ambiri akufuna kuwona. Pali njira zambiri zomwe zingamuthandize mnyamata kuthamangira iwe. Koma kuti tikwaniritse zotsatirazi tiyenera kuyesetsa.

Malangizo a momwe mungamuthandizire mnyamata kuthamangitsani inu

Malangizo a momwe mungapezere munthu kuthamangitsani pambuyo panu akugwirizana ndi psychology ya maubwenzi. Musaganize kuti adzachita mwachidwi. Pambuyo pake, zonsezi zimadalira kudzipereka kwanu ndi kudzidalira kwanu. Komabe, malangiziwa angapereke chitsimikizo cha momwe muyenera kuyendamo.

Choyamba, muyenera kudziyang'anira. Ngakhale akunena kuti moyo waukulu, kuti uzindikiridwe, uyenera kugwira ntchito pa mawonekedwe. Anyamata sangathe kulekerera a neuhozhennyh ndi azimayi opusa, omwe amawala kwambiri akhoza kuwopseza. Choncho, muyenera kuyang'ana bwino: kukhala wokongola, koma osati "kumenyana" mumaso, okoma ndi okongola, koma popanda kukopeka.

Kenaka, phunzirani zofuna za chinthucho ndikuyesani kuzigawa. Chabwino, ngati mutagwirira ntchito limodzi, mukhoza kumuthandiza nthawi ndi nthawi kapena kumupempha kuti akuthandizeni. Koma wina sayenera kukhala obtrusive.

Ngati mutakhazikitsidwa mwamphamvu, muyenera kusiya mwachidule mnyamatayo nokha ndipo muwone zomwe anachita. Kambiranani ndi anthu ena, dzipezeni ntchito kunja kwa nyumba, onetsetsani pokambirana momwe muli otanganidwa. Ndipo kumwetulira. Mumpongwe iye. Mungathe ngakhale kukondana ndi anyamata ena.

Njira yodalirika ikhoza kukhala masewera a "kuzizira", zomwe zimakhala patali, ndiye kuti munthuyo akuyandikira yekha. Mwachitsanzo, choyamba mumuitaneni pa chifukwa chilichonse, ndipo khalani chete kwa masiku angapo ndikupewa ngakhale pamisonkhano.

Mmene mungapangire mnyamata athamangire ndi chiwembu?

Njira yothetsera vuto la momwe mungapezere mnyamata kuthamangira msungwana ikhoza kugwiritsidwa ntchito pogwiritsa ntchito ndondomeko yapadera - yobadwa. Ntchito yake ikhoza kuthera milungu ingapo, pomwe chinthucho chidzayang'ana misonkhano nthawi zonse ndikuyitana mobwerezabwereza. Pa nthawiyi, msungwana ayesetse kupambana malingaliro a mnyamatayo mwa njira zachilengedwe (onani nsonga zapamwamba).

Chimene muyenera kuchita:

1. Tengani chinthu chilichonse, mutenge chithunzi chake.
2. Dzuŵa litalowa kapena madzulo, imani pakhomo (mwezi uyenera kukula).
3. Pang'onopang'ono, mwachidziwitso, ndikumverera, nenani mawu otsatirawa: "Usiku uliwonse, tsiku ndi tsiku, lolani mtima wanu usavutike ndi kundilakalaka. Ine ndine magazi anu, ine ndine mpweya wanu, ndine masomphenya anu, ine ndikumverera kwanu, ine ndimatenga malingaliro anu onse, ine ndimangoyembekezera ine! Ndipo momwe mtima wako udzasungunuka mumtima mwako, momwemo njira yako yopitira kunyumba yanga idzatembenuka! Amen! "
4. Tsekani zenera ndikupita kukagona. Chizindikiro chabwino kwambiri, ngati mnyamata akulota malotowo, ndiye kuti chiwembucho chikutsimikiziridwa kugwira ntchito.

Kodi mungakakamize munthu wakale kuti akuthamangitseni?

Nkhani ina yofunikira yomwe amakhumudwitsa atsikana ambiri momwe angapangitsire mnyamata kuthawa, ngati mwagawanika kale, koma kumverera kwake sikunakwanire. Pano mungathe kugwiritsa ntchito njira zomwezo zomwe tatchulidwa pamwambapa. Koma muyenera kuchita ndi kukhudzidwa kwambiri. Ngakhale ngati kale sichikukondani, angakhumudwe kwambiri, ndipo zingakhale zovuta kumufikira. Khalani ndi chipiriro chokwanira. Yesetsani kumumenyana naye nthawi ndi nthawi momwe mungathere, koma musakhale obtrusive. Onetsani kuti mutatha kupatukana moyo wanu sunathe, komabe mutsimikizire kuti mumasowabe. Kaŵirikaŵiri funsani za mautumiki, lolani kuti amvetsetse, ndi kuti akhalebe osasinthika.