Pamene akunena, "simungathe kulamulira mtima wanu" ndipo nthawi zina zimamveka kwa mwamuna yemwe ali pabanja. Muzochitika zotero anthu awiri akumenyana mu moyo: wina ali wokonzeka chirichonse, koma kuti apambane chinthucho, ndipo wachiwiri amanong'oneza mwambi wodziwika kuti simungathe kupanga chimwemwe pa tsoka la wina. Ngati zinasankhidwa kuchita ndondomeko yoyamba, ndikofunika kudziwa momwe mungapambitsire mtima wa mwamuna wokwatiwa. Pali mfundo zambiri zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuti muyandikire kwambiri. Kuonjezera mwayi wopambana ngati chiyanjano ndi mkazi wa "wogwidwa" sichiwonjezera.
Kodi muyenera kudziwa chiyani kuti mupambane mwamuna wokwatira?
Ndi bwino kuyamba ndi nzeru zamalangizo, zomwe zingakuthandizeni kukhala ndi njira zoyenera zothandizira. Ndikofunika kudziwa chomwe chiri chomwecho ndi chimene chimamuyankhira munthuyo, komanso zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi mkazi wake.
Mmene mungapezere munthu wokwatira:
- Oimira abambo amphamvu amakopeka ndi mazimayi, omwe amachokera kwa anthu. Palibe kutengeka ndi chipiriro, munthu adzakopeka ndi nyama yovuta kuposa mphatso yaulere.
- Khalani okondana. Kawirikawiri mu ubale wa banja, kukondana kumafalikira kumbuyo ndipo nthawi zambiri kumakhala kochepa. Pampani wosankhidwa wanu ndi chakudya chamakono kapena mphatso yapachiyambi, koma musapitirire.
- Ndiloleni ndimvetse munthuyo kuti ndiwe wamkulu komanso wamphamvu, nthawi zambiri amasonyeza kuti ndinu wofooka, funsani thandizo.
- Kulankhula za momwe mungapambitsire mwamuna wokwatiwa, ndi bwino kupereka uphungu wina wofunikira - kumvetsetsa wosankhidwayo, kumuthandiza pazochitika zosiyanasiyana. Ndiyetu ndiyambe kukhala bwenzi labwino kwa iye, yemwe amamukhulupirira.
- Musati mufunse chirichonse, musati mukanikize ndipo musapange scandals. Zonsezi amalandira kale m'banja, kotero muyenera kumupatsa munthu momasuka ndi ufulu.
- Mfundo ina yofunikira - amuna ogonana kwambiri, pamene akutamandidwa ndi kuyamikiridwa , kotero simungathe kugwiritsa ntchito izi. Yesetsani mwayi uliwonse kuona zomwe wapindula.