Mwatsoka, chiwerengero cha mabanja omwe amatha chaka chilichonse chimakula. Ndicho chifukwa chake amayi ambiri amafuna kudziwa momwe angasungire mwamuna wake kuthetsa banja. Monga mukudziwira, maubwenzi angakhalepo nthawi yaitali kokha ngati okonda azigwira ntchito paokha, kupanga zinthu zabwino kwa wina ndi mzake.
Kodi mungasunge bwanji mwamuna wake m'banja?
Malingana ndi chiwerengero, mabanja ambiri amatha chifukwa chakuti palibe njira zomwe zinatengedwa nthawi. Mwa kumangiriza wokondedwa wanu ku bateri, simungakhoze kusunga izo, chifukwa inu muyenera kusintha maganizo ndi kubwezeretsa malingaliro akale.
Malangizo a momwe mungasunge mwamuna m'banja:
- Zimayamba ndi kusanthula maubwenzi ndi kuyerekezera malo ena ndi zikhalidwe. Mwachitsanzo, kumbukirani momwe mumakangana, kumpsompsona, nthawi yochuluka yomwe mumapatsana, ndi zina zotero. Mwa njira iyi, mungathe kufotokozera kuchuluka kwa momwe mukufuna kuigwirira ntchito.
- Amayi ambiri muukwati amalephera kudziletsa okha, ndipo ichi ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu, chifukwa amuna ngati maso. Malinga ndi zofukufukuzo, amuna amapita kwa ena, chifukwa asiya kuona mkazi wokonzekera bwino komanso wachikulire pafupi nawo. Nthawi zonse pitani kukongola salons, pitani ku masewera ndikuyang'ana chakudya. Yang'anani kuti mwamunayo akhale wonyada.
- Khalani okondweretsa kwa mnzanu, ndipo chifukwa cha ichi muyenera kusintha nthawi zonse. Kawirikawiri, amuna amasiya akazi osakondwera omwe ali bukhu lotseguka kwa iwo.
- Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi yambiri pamodzi, mwachitsanzo, kuyenda, kupita ku cinema, kukonza chakudya chamakono, ndi zina zotero. Ingokumbukirani kuti munthu aliyense akhale ndi malo ake omwe.
Ndibwino kuti mudziwe momwe mungasungire mwamuna m'banja mukatha kuchita chiwembu , monga momwe maanja ambiri amakumana nazo. Ndikufuna kunena kuti ngati mwamuna kapena mkaziyo sanayambepo, ndiye kuti amapereka mpata kwa maubwenzi. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangizidwa kuti asakhale chete m'mikhalidwe yotereyi, koma kukambirana zonse. Ndikofunika kuyankha modzichepetsa mafunso onse ndikumasula mkhalidwewo, mwinamwake sizingagwire ntchito. Patsani mwamuna wanu nthawi yokonzanso chirichonse.