Lero, kukula kwa ukazi ndi vuto lalikulu la achinyamata komanso ntchito yaikulu ya okalamba. M'nthaŵi ya "kusagwirizana" ndi kulemera kwa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, anthu anayamba kuiwala chomwe chikhalidwe cha akazi ndi momwe ma psychology amasiyana ndi amuna.
Komabe, msungwana aliyense wanzeru yemwe akufuna kukhala wokondwa ndi mwamuna weniweni pa siteji inayake ya chitukuko chake amaganiza za tsogolo ndipo amadziika yekha ntchito yodabwitsa kwa mkazi aliyense -kukula kwa chikazi.
Zochita zolimbitsa ukazi
Mzimayi ndi cholengedwa chofewa, chomwe chikutanthauza kuti ayenera kutulutsa zabwino. Asungwana okondeka akhale osavuta, mwamunayo amakopeka osati maonekedwe okha, komanso ndi maiko akunja. Kuunika kwakukulu kudzabwera kuchokera kwa inu, amuna ambiri adzakukondani.
Sungani, ndipo mudzamwetulira kumbuyo. Sangalalani ndi moyo, chotsani pa zonse zomwe mumachita zosangalatsa zambiri momwe zingathere. Phunzirani kukhululukira anthu, musamatsutse zolephera zawo, chifukwa mwanjira imeneyi mumakopeka m'moyo mwanu choipa, chomwe sichidziwika bwino kwa zolengedwa zazing'ono ndi zokongola.
Khalani ofooka. Amuna samakonda akazi amphamvu, amakonda kupereka zambiri kuposa kulandira. Musati muzigwira ntchito zonse zapakhomo paokha, perekani osankhidwa anu mwayi wakuthandizani ndikukhulupirira ine, adzayamikira. Musazengereze kusonyeza zofooka zanu ndipo nthawi zambiri muzidalira mwamuna wamphongo wamphamvu.
Werengani zambiri. Kudzikonda kudzakuthandizani kuti mudziwe zonse zogonana za amayi ndi amuna, komanso kuti zilimbikitseni ndi kuphunzitsa kukhudzidwa ndi chikondi. Akazi okondweretsa akhala akukopa amuna, chifukwa chophimba chokongola popanda chokhala nacho sichingafune aliyense.
Lowani masewera. Kusinkhasinkha, pilates ndi yoga - kuwonetsetsa mphamvu za amayi,
Kupititsa patsogolo maphunziro a akazi
Ngati simukudalira kwambiri luso lanu ndikuganiza kuti nokha simungathe kupirira ntchito yolimbikitsa ukazi mwa inu nokha, ndiye kuti maphunziro anu ndi omwe mukufunikira. Pakalipano, pali masukulu ambiri omwe amaphunzitsa amayi.
Mu sukulu za chitukuko cha ukazi inu mudzaphunzitsidwa momwe mungadzikondere nokha, kukuthandizani kuti muwonetse ukazi, komanso kumanga mgwirizano wosavuta ndi dziko la anthu. Mwinamwake maphunziro pa chitukuko cha chikazi ndicho chomwe mwakhala mukuchifuna.
Aliyense wa ife ali ndi chiwalo, zimangoyenera kuwonetsedwa kwa ena, kukhala okoma mtima komanso oleza mtima, kusonyeza kufooketsa kwazimayi ndikulola munthuyo kumverera pafupi ndi iwe. Cholengedwa chokongola chosasunthika sichidzasiyidwa popanda chidwi. Mukungofuna kukhala wachikazi ndipo mudzalandira.