Chimodzi mwa zosowa zaumunthu ndizofunikira kulankhulana. Anthu ndi ofunikira kwambiri kuti azilankhulana ndi mtundu wawo, zochitika pamodzi ndi kuyankhulana . Apo ayi, munthu amakumana ndi vuto la psyche kapena mavuto.
Komabe, pali zochitika pamene munthu pazifukwa zina amachepetsa anthu. Kukhala ndi anthu kumamupangitsa kumva zowawa, mantha komanso mantha.
Nchifukwa chiyani anthu amawopa anthu ena?
Chifukwa chachikulu chomwe anthu ena amawopera anthu ena ndi vuto la ubwana. Nthawi zina munthu amawakumbukira ndikuzindikira, koma nthawi zambiri, komanso kufunika kwa chipsinjo cha maganizo, chimachokera mu chikumbumtima ndikumukakamiza kuti azichita chimodzimodzi. Kutsutsidwa, nkhanza kwa munthu, kusatetezeka, kuopseza moyo pamoyo wake, izi ndi zina zimatha kuyambitsa mavuto mu ubale ndi anthu ena akuluakulu.
Nthaŵi zina, phobias imaoneka ngati wamkulu chifukwa cha kupsinjika kwakukulu kwa mitundu yosiyanasiyana.
Kodi anthu omwe amaopa anthu amatchedwa bwanji?
Kuopa anthu kunkatchedwa kuti socibia phobia kapena kusokoneza maganizo. Anthu omwe amawopa anthu ena amatchedwa social phobes. Komabe, mu gulu la phobias, molingana ndi "phobia ya anthu", ambiri a phobias akuphatikizidwa. Malingana ndi munthu woopsa uyu akhoza kutchulidwa m'njira zosiyanasiyana:
- odzudzula - amene amawopa alendo;
- ndifobowo - wakuopa anthu;
- Gynofob - yemwe amawopa akazi;
- gravidofob - yemwe amawopa amayi apakati.
Kodi mungasiye bwanji kuopa anthu?
Kutha kwa thupi kungakhale ndi kusiyana kosiyana. Mtundu woopa wofooka ukhoza kugonjetsedwa nokha. Ngati mantha ndi amphamvu kwambiri moti amalephera kukhala ndi moyo wathanzi, angafune thandizo la katswiri.
Vuto la kuchiza vutoli ndi chakuti munthu yemwe ali ndi phobia sangathe kulankhulana bwino ndi dokotala kapena wothandizira chifukwa cha mantha ake.
Ngati funso ndilo momwe mungalephere kuchita manyazi komanso kuopa anthu, ndiye kuti n'zosatheka kuti muzigwiritsa ntchito mwanjira imeneyi mwaulere.
- Yesetsani kupeza mitu yoyankhulana ndi alendo: funsani nthawi, momwe mungapitire ku adiresi yofunikako, mtengo wa zoyendetsa zoyendetsa, mtengo wa katundu mu sitolo.
- Kukhala ndi luso la ubwenzi: kukambirana ndi munthu, kugwiritsira ntchito nthawi pamodzi, kumutcha,
zimagwirizana ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Mwa njira, kuyankhulana kwa intaneti ndi njira yabwino kwa anthu omwe sadzidziwa okha, omwe akuyang'ana momwe angaleke kuopa kulankhula ndi anthu. Lembani zomwe mumaganiza pazithunzi kapena mu ndemanga pansi pa dzina lachinyengo ndi njira yabwino kuyamba kuyambilana popanda mantha . - Wokha, dziwonetseni nokha ngati munthu wodalirika: yongolani mapewa anu, kuyankhula mokweza, kumwetulira mofatsa, kuyang'ana patsogolo panu.
Ndipo komabe_inu mukhoza kuthandiza anthu. Malo ndi kuyamikira kwa anthu ena zimathandiza kuthetsa mantha a anthu.