Kodi mungayendetse bwanji munthu?

Amayi ambiri amakhulupirira kuti amuna ali ouma kwambiri, kuti sangalole kuti azitsatira mwambo nthawi zonse, koma iwo akulakwitsa chifukwa mwamuna akhoza kuchita zomwe mkazi akufuna. Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndi kusankha njira yolondola. Mothandizidwa ndi mapeto, zofuna ndi malamulo, mkazi sangapindule kanthu. Koma kulimbikitsidwa, kutamandidwa ndi kupempha zimatha kupanga matsenga pakuyankhulana ndi munthu.

Choncho, tiyeni tiyesetse kupeza momwe tingagwiritsire ntchito mwamuna, zomwe muyenera kudziwa kuti mugwiritse ntchito pogonana komanso pamene mumagwiritsa ntchito matsenga.

Psychology of Man Management

Choyamba, timapereka zitsanzo za zifukwa zomwe zimasonyeza kuti amuna akuyenera kuyendetsedwa.

1. Oimira mbali yamphamvu kwambiri ya chilengedwe nthawi zonse ali ndi chikhumbo chachikulu kulandira akazi mmalo mwawo. Chida chanu chachikulu ndi chakuti ndinu mkazi ndipo muli ndi chinyengo ndi chithumwa m'magazi anu omwe amuna sapezeka. Ngakhale otsogolera wanu ali bwana wanu, anzanu akuntchito, ndiye mukulakwitsa ngati simukudziwa kuti akuwona mwa inu, choyamba, mkazi, ndipo pokhapokha ndiye wogwira ntchito, ndi zina zotero.
2. Amuna amamva mtunda wautali pamene wina ayesa kulamulira ufulu wawo. Amuna ambiri amatsatira mfundoyi: mvetserani malangizo a amayi ndikuchita zonse zosiyana. Amuna samalola pamene wina alowa pa nthawi yawo yaulere. Ndipo izi zimatsimikiziranso kuti amai amafunika kugwiritsa ntchito njira yolamulira munthu kuti akwaniritse zomwe akufuna.
3. Amuna, mwa njira, amagwiritsanso ntchito kugonana kofooka ndi kokongola. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, mkazi ayenera kuphunzira kuzindikira njira zogwiritsira ntchito, kusokoneza chisankho chake pambali ya ena.

Sizingakhale zodabwitsa kunena za zomwe kwenikweni anthu amachitira asanayambe kusuntha momwe angaphunzire momwe angayendetsere.

Mwa munthu, chikhalidwe chimachokera pa chinthu chomwe amachimverera cholimba pamene wina akuwongolera luso lake, mphamvu. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, ngati mukufuna kuti munthu wokondedwa wanu akhale wodziimira payekha, taganizirani kuti kale akhala mmodzi, muzimusamalira.

Mbali za amuna oyang'anira

Munthu akhoza kukhala munthu ngati mwamuyika yekha. Choyamba, muyenera kumukopa kuti akopeke. Utsogoleri uwu wa munthu umachokera ku chilengedwe cha umunthu. Ngati mutha kuwalimbikitsa mwa mwamuna, ndiye pamphindi yomweyo zidzakhala zovuta kwa iye kulingalira ndi chifukwa. Iye adzakhala mu mphamvu yanu. Maganizo ake angasonyeze kuti simuyenera kukumverani, ndikupatseni inu, koma thupi lake lidzanena mosiyana. Wothandizira wanu mu dongosolo lino ndi mwamuna libido. Yambitsani mwa munthu wokondweretsedwa naye ngati mkazi. Ganizirani pasadakhale zonse zonse. Sankhani chidutswa chopanda pake cha sweatshirt, osatsegula batani pamwamba. Ndibwino kuti musankhe chovala chachikale chodulidwa.

Zikatero ngati womulankhulana ndi wofanana ndi inu, ndiye kuti mungagwiritse ntchito malingaliro okhwima ngati kusokoneza. Osati mwachindunji, koma kumkhudza munthuyo. Maganizo okondweretsa angayambitse stroking pa mkono, paphewa. Koma kumbukirani kuti simuyenera kuphwanya malo a munthu, ngati udindo wake ndi wanu (bwana, mwachitsanzo).

Musaiwale kuti munthuyo ndi wachikondi, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti asiye kumuneneza. Izi zimanyozetsa umoyo wake, zimamukhumudwitsa ngati munthu. Ngati mukufuna kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu azikhala pakhomo pa nthawi inayake, muuzeni mofatsa za izo, mvetserani.

Mkazi aliyense amadziwika kuti amatha kulamulira amuna, chifukwa cha izi muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito luso lawo lachikazi ndi luso.