Banja la mtendere lamtendere, mwamuna wachikondi, ana achangu - aliyense amakuchitirani kaduka, ndipo mumati: "Chabwino, zikhale! Ndine woyenera kukhala wosangalala! ". Tsoka, kaduka pawokha kulibe, kumawonekera mwa machitidwe a "zabwino zonse" kwa iwo omwe ali achisoni. Ndipo pa mawu ogwira ntchito, kaduka ndi chokhumba chimatchedwa spoilage.
Ndiyeno pa nthawi ina, chirichonse, kuchokera, ngakhale kuchokera apa, chimayamba kutha. Mwamuna amakwiya ndi iwe ndi ana, osatchula kuti alibe chidwi chenicheni m'banja komanso iwe mwini. Pano mu nthawi zotere, ndiye timayamba kuganiza (zomwezo nthawi zambiri zimachezera mitu yathu kudutsa), kuchotsa kwa mwamuna kuchotsa. Ndipo popeza mukuganiza, ndiye pali chifukwa. Ndipotu, aura yathu imakhala yofulumira kwambiri kusiyana ndi malingaliro omwe amakhudzidwa ndi kusintha.
Ziphuphu chifukwa cha kusudzulana
Ngati wina akufuna kuwononga banja lanu lachitsanzo, akufuna kuchotsa mwamuna wanu kapena kukuchotsani kwa mwamuna wanu, amatumizidwa kwa inu kuti athetse banja. Zowonongeka kotero nthawi zonse zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kwa mmodzi mwa okwatirana, omwe pamapeto pake adzakhala "okhumudwitsa" a kugwa kwa banja. Tiyeni tilembere zizindikiro zazikulu za kuwonongedwa kwa mwamuna:
- mwamuna amakhala wosayanjanitsika;
- Nthawi zambiri amapita kunyumba kwa amayi ake, kukacheza ndi anzawo, kuntchito;
- khalidwe lake limasintha: iye amayamba kukonda ndi mkazi aliyense woyamba yemwe amamupeza;
- iye akuganiza kuti ndinu mdani yemwe anawononga moyo wake;
- amayamba kumwa mowa kwambiri.
Tumizani "mphatso" mwa kuwononga munthu aliyense, kwa anthu anu apamtima. Kungakhale mlongo yemwe sanakwatire, wokondana, bwenzi lanu lakale, omwe munasinthanitsa ndi mwamuna wanu wam'tsogolo, ana anu kuchokera m'banja lanu loyamba, ndi zina zotero. Ngati sizingatheke kumvetsetsa momwe angadziwire kuwonongedwa kwa mwamuna, zimakhala zovuta kumudziwa mtumiki wake, ndipo sikofunikira kwenikweni.
Tsopano ndikofunika kusamalira kuchotsedwa kwa mwamuna wake.
Kutumizidwa pa chakudya
Njira yosavuta yochotsera kuwonongeka kwa mwamuna popanda kudziwika, popanda kudziwa kwake - ndiko kulankhula za chakudya. Amuna nthawi zambiri samakonda kukhulupirira matsenga komanso kuwononga, kotero pamene chibwenzi chanu chatha kale ndi matsenga , muyenera kuchita mwakachetechete, kukhala ndi chidaliro mu luso lanu.
Pasanathe sabata, werengani miseche yotsatira pa chakudya cha mwamuna wake:
"Zalembedwa m'malemba okhudza Adam:
Adamu anapatsa Eva nthiti, ndipo iwo anali nacho chikondi,
Ndipo anabadwa mwa iwo, ndipo ife kuchokera kwa ana awo.
Ndikuika chikondi cha Evin
mu mtima wa Mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina).
Ine ndikupemphera, mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina), Mfumu ya Kumwamba,
Theotokos, Amayi Ake:
Zokongola, khungu, ife atumiki a Mulungu (mayina).
Momwe ziwombankhanga zimagwirira kuzungulira mitengoyo,
Tisiyeni mapeto athu.
Ndipo ndani amene ativulaza ife, amene amatiteteza kuti tisakhale ndi moyo,
Togo, Ambuye atenge izo.
Chokani, O Ambuye, zoipa zonse, zonsezo
Ndili ndi banja langa, ndi mwamuna wanga.
Tumizeni ife zaka usinkhu,
Kukonda ndi kusaiwala momwe Eva ankamukondera Adam,
Momwe Adam adamutsatira kuchokera ku paradaiso kupita kudziko lapansi.
Mu dzina la Atate ndi Mwana ndi Mzimu Woyera. Amen. "
Ngati chiyanjanocho sichingasinthe, uyenera kupita kwa katswiri - mfiti kapena ufiti.