Anthu amagawanika kukhala otsatira a " chilakolako " cha kugonana , pamene chirichonse chiyenera kuchitika pa chiphokoso ndi chifuno cha mulanduyo, ndipo kwa iwo omwe ali pabedi amangoyang'ana kufuna kwatsopano, koopsa komanso kosatetezeka. Onse awiri ali pomwe pano, chifukwa kugonana kumabweretsa chisangalalo, ndipo momwe mungakwaniritsire ndi nkhani yaumwini kwa banja lirilonse.
Tidzakambirana za zomwe zimafanana ndi atsikana, ndikuyang'ana pa ziwerengero komanso osaphatikizapo kuti zina mwazifukwa sizikugwirizana ndi inu ndipo simukuzikonda.
Nkhono
Malingana ndi chiwerengero, amayi ambiri amasankha kupanga chikondi pang'onopang'ono, motalika komanso polowera. Izi zimakwaniritsa zonse zitatu.
Mkaziyo amagona kumbuyo kwake ndikumuponyera miyendo pamapewa ake. Amalowa mkati mwake, akugwada, akugwirana manja pa bedi.
Ngati mkazi wasokoneza kwambiri microflora osati mafuta ochuluka kwambiri, timalimbikitsa kugwiritsa ntchito mafutawa pamadzi.
Kuthamanga
Chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe atsikana amakonda kwambiri. Mwamunayo wagona pamsana pake. Wokondedwayo amagonanso kumbuyo kwake (kapena, mwachoncho, amadalira mikono yake yolunjika) pamilendo yake, amaweramitsa miyendo yake. Kotero kuya kwake kumayendetsedwa ndi wokondedwayo, ndipo munthuyo ali ndi mwayi womusamalira ndi manja a manja.
Loop
Ndipo chomalizira cha zovuta zotchuka mu kugonana, zomwe atsikana amakonda. Mwamunayo wagona pamsana pake, ndipo mkaziyo amatenga mphuno ya mawondo, monga momwe amachitira "machitidwe".
Amachokera ku malo amenewa, omwe amayendetsa mofulumira komanso mozama, ndipo munthu ali ndi mwayi wopezera chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo chowonjezera pa kugonana kwa abwenzi ake panthawi yogonana.
