Chilimbikitso cha kupambana

Nthawi zina, kuti tikwaniritse zolinga zina, tilibe chilimbikitso chochita, kulimbikitsa. Ndilimbikitso yomwe imakhala injini ya anthu ambiri, yodziwa zoyamba za munthu, komanso khalidwe ndi liwiro la ntchito zosiyanasiyana. Ndipo chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikuluzikulu ndizolimbikitsa kuti tipambane, zomwe zidzakambidwa m'nkhaniyi.

Woyamba kufotokoza lingaliro la zopindulitsa zomwe anali nazo anali G. Murray, katswiri wa zamaganizo wa ku America. Iye adatchula mpikisano wambiri za zolimbikitsazi, ndipo munthuyo akhoza kukangana naye kuti apambane. Chotsatira cha chizoloŵezi ichi cholimbikitsana ndi kudzipangira okhazikika ndi chikhumbo cholimbana ndi chovuta.

Pambuyo pake, asayansi ena omwe adagwiritsa ntchito chiphunzitso cha kupindula (komanso kupambana), amasiyana mosiyana (ndi zina zotsutsana). Kawirikawiri anthu amanena kuti anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi chofuna kukwaniritsa, amatha kukhala ovuta kwambiri pa ntchitoyi. Kuonjezera apo, zotsatira za njira yawo ziyenera kudalira kwathunthu payekha mwiniwake, osati payekha.

Komabe, chikhumbo chowonetsa zotsatira zapamwamba, ndipo, motero, kuti chikwaniritse, chiri choyamba, choyamba, kwa anthu omwe akuyendetsa ntchito ndi omwe ali ndi udindo. Cholimbikitsani kukwaniritsa cholinga chimafuna kupezeka kwa makhalidwe ena omwe amaika izi kapena khalidwelo.

Vuto la cholinga cha kupambana

Psychology ya chilimbikitso kuti upeze kupambana ikugwirizana kwambiri ndi chikhumbo chopewa kulephera. Maganizo awiriwa sali ofanana ndi omwe angawonekere poyamba, chifukwa, malinga ndi cholinga (kuti apambane kapena kupewa kulephera), njira yopezera zotsatira zofunidwa imasankhidwa.

Cholimbikitsani kukwaniritsa cholingachi nthawi zambiri chimagwirizanitsidwa ndi chiopsezo chowerengedwa, ndikofunika kuti munthu akhale otsimikiza kuti apeze. Kufalikira kwa chizoloŵezi ichi cholimbikitsana nthawi zambiri kumatikakamiza kuti tiike zolinga zenizeni kuti tigwiritse ntchito, kapena kuti tidziwonetsere pang'ono (kumbukirani chilakolako cha kudzikonzekera). Ndipo bwanji Zolingalira zodabwitsa, zolinga zowonongeka kwambiri nthawi zambiri zimasankhidwa ndi anthu omwe akulimbikitsidwa kulephera. Komabe, iyi ndi imodzi yokha yazitsulo zomwe amasankha - zimakhala zosavuta kuzikhazikitsira zokhazokha.

Chokondweretsa ndi chakuti iwo ndi omwe amayesa kupeŵa kulephera, ngati ali ndi luso losavuta, amachita mofulumira komanso mogwira mtima kuposa anthu omwe amachititsa kuti apambane. Ndipo ngati ntchitoyo si yosavuta, ndiye, monga lamulo, "opambana" amachotsedwa patsogolo. Kotero, mu zosiyana, zolinga zosiyana zimakhala zogwira mtima kwambiri pokwaniritsa cholinga.