Wozunzika

Ambiri amadziwa zachinyengo ngati ulesi sikumva, koma wina amachiphonya. Tikukamba za anthu ogwira ntchito, anthu omwe amaiwala kugwira ntchito kwa abambo, abwenzi, zofuna zapadera, samapita ku tchuthi ndikukhala muofesi. Ndipo oyenera, ngati uyu ndi munthu wosungulumwa, koma choti achite ngati mwamuna ali wodetsa nkhawa: awonetseni ana ake chithunzi chake, ndikuchiwona m'maloto chabe?

Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale wosokonezeka?

Kwa iwo omwe amadziwika bwino, funso ili limveka, zodabwitsa. Mwa njira, asayansi akukhulupiliranso kuti kufunafuna njira zowonjezerera sikuti ndi zopusa chabe, komanso ndizoopsa. Chifukwa chakuti kukonzekera kotereku kwa ntchito kumakhala mofanana ndi kumwa mowa kapena mankhwala. Ikhoza kuonedwa kuti ndi neurosis, yomwe njira yokhayo yodzidziwira yekha ndi ntchito. Choncho, chilakolako chofuna kukhala chodetsa nkhawa ndichabechabechabe, ngati mukufuna kuphunzira momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito bwino, muyenera kulimbana ndi ulesi, ndikudziwana bwino ndi zofunikira za kayendetsedwe ka nthawi, komanso osayika kabuku pafupi ndi kompyuta yanu.

Kodi ogwira ntchito mopitilirapo amachokera kuti?

Nchifukwa chiyani mumayendera moyo kuntchito, pamene muli banja, abwenzi ndi zina zambiri? Koma pamene izi siziri, zimangokhalabe kugwira ntchito. Choncho, msungwana mmodzi kapena mnyamata ali ndi mwayi wabwino wokhala workaholic kuposa banja.

Nthawi zina, munthu amapita kukagwira ntchito kuti adzipatule ku mavuto ake. Izi zimakhala zosiyana kwambiri ndi amayi ovutika kwambiri, popeza amayi nthawi zambiri amaika banja ndipo ngati sagwira ntchito, amapereka mphamvu zawo zonse. Choncho, ngati mzimayiyo adasokonezeka, ndiye ichi ndi chizindikiro chodziwikiratu kuti banja silili lofewa. Ngakhale pali amayi omwe amagwira ntchito mopambanitsa omwe sangathe kuchita chilichonse, osapereka 100%. Popeza adaphunzitsidwa kuyambira ali mwana, anali ophunzira abwino mu sukulu ya sukulu, sukulu ndi sukulu, sangathe kuima moyo wachikulire ndikupitiriza kuchita zonse pa "5 +". Chokhacho ndizovuta - amatha kugwira bwino bwino, koma palibe amene adawaphunzitsa kuti apange mgwirizano, ndipo chifukwa chake moyo wa banja suli bwino. Amuna amakhala ovuta kwambiri chifukwa cha mpikisano wamuyaya, aliyense amafuna kukhala woyamba, ndipo kuti apite pamwamba, muyenera kugwira ntchito mwakhama. Ndi kumene moyo umakhala, kukhala mu ofesi, ndikuiwala kuti pali zinthu zina zosangalatsa. Koma ndithudi, sitingathe kutaya ndalama zokhazokha. Ngati mukufuna ndalama, ndipo palibe amene akudikira thandizo, muyenera kudalira nokha ndi kugwira ntchito, kuti pali mphamvu.

Zoona, pali limodzi limodzi mu zonsezi, ngati theka lina limagwira ntchito kwambiri, ndiye mavuto a kunyumba ndizochepa.

Kodi mungakhale bwanji ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi workaholic?

Mwanjira yabwino, muyenera kulingalira za zomwe mungachite ndi workaholic ndi mwamuna wanu, pamene mutapita kukakhala ndi munthu wotere, chifukwa kudalira sikukanakhoza kuwonekera modzidzimutsa. Mwina, mwa zina ndilo vuto lanu - kuti mudzipereke kwathunthu kuntchito, pamene chirichonse chiri chabwino kwambiri kunyumba. Zowona, nthawi zina pamene workaholic ndi malo osungirako anthu, koma munthu wotereyu amakhala m'nyumba yabwino m'malo mwake amatenga mapepala ofunika kuposa momwe angagone usiku. Kotero, musanamunene mwamuna wanu, yesani khalidwe lanu, mwinamwake inu nokha mukumukakamiza kufunafuna chitonthozo mu ntchito yake.

Komabe, kuti mukambirane ndi mwamuna wogwira ntchito molimbika, momwe mungakumane naye kunyumba, mukufunikira. Osangoyamba ndi zotsutsa, musayambe zowopsya, yesetsani kupeza chifukwa chenicheni chochita zinthu zosangalatsa ndipo muzitha kupeza nthawi yocheza nawo. Mwina zingakhale bwino kuti mupite mlungu umodzi pamodzi, ndipo nthawi yonseyi wogwira ntchitoyo adzadzipereka yekha kugwira ntchito. Kapena mungasinthe moyo wanu nyimbo. Ganizirani za tchuthi lolimbirako , komwe sikudzakhala malo ogwirira ntchito, mwachitsanzo, malo akutali komwe kulibe kugwirizana kwasuntha. Musayesere kuphunzitsanso anthu ogwira ntchito, kudalira koteroko sikungachiritse, mungathe kufotokozera kuti chidwi chake ndi chofunikira kwa inu ndi ana.