Ukalamba

Mawu oti "akale-timer" nthawi zosiyanasiyana amatanthauza zaka zosiyana. Kotero, mu zaka zakale ndi zapakati ankakhulupirira kuti mayi amene sanabereke mwana wake woyamba asanakwanitse zaka 20 anali atakalamba kale. Pakatikati mwa zaka za m'ma 1900, malire awa "atatha ..." anasamukira ku zaka makumi awiri ndi ziwiri. Kenaka akazi okalamba anayamba kuonedwa ngati omwe ali ndi zaka zoposa 28, kapena zaka 30.

Kawirikawiri, mawu oipawa adakalipobe akazi ambiri. Vomerezani, ndikunyoza kumva mu adiresi yanu khalidwe ngatilo, ngakhale mutabereka nthawi yoyamba muzaka 35. Mu zamankhwala zamakono, amayesa kuchotsa nthawiyi ndikuyikanso ndi yowonjezera - " kubala mwamsanga ".

Kodi ndi liti pamene mkazi amaonedwa kuti ndi wokalamba?

Koma kubadwa kwa nthawi yochepa kumalinganizidwa mosiyana m'mayiko osiyanasiyana padziko lapansi. Mwachitsanzo, ku Ukraine a zaka zapakati pazaka zoyamba ndi zaka 24, ku Russia - 26 kapena kuposa. Ndipo m'mayiko otukuka a ku Ulaya, amayi amasankha kutenga mimba pambuyo pa 30-31, pamene ntchito yawo yafika pamlingo winawake, kugonana ndi mwamuna wake kwakhala ndi zovuta zamtundu uliwonse ndipo kumalimbikitsidwa, ndipo thanzi limakonzedweratu ku "zokhutiritsa".

Kawirikawiri, zomwe zimayambitsa mimba yam'mbuyo ndi kubereka ndi zotsatira za kuchotsa mimba, zomwe zimayambitsa kusabereka kwa amayi . Mwamwayi, mankhwala amakono amatha kuthandiza ngakhale mu zooneka zovuta kwambiri.

Mimba pambuyo pa zaka 25 - pluses ndi minuses

Ngakhale zili choncho m'maganizo athu a anthu kuti pambuyo pake mumasankha kubereka mwana woyamba, zovuta komanso zoopsa zimaperekedwa, kuberekera kumapeto kuli ndi ubwino wosatsutsika. Mwachitsanzo, kuti mimba imeneyi imalandiridwa komanso imayembekezera nthawi yaitali. Izi zidzakhudza kwambiri mchitidwe wa mimba, kubala ndi kulera ana.

Chachiwiri, mkazi wa msinkhu uwu ali wochenjera kwambiri pakulera, akuyang'anitsitsa thanzi lake, amayenda mu kufufuza kofunikira, amachita zonse kuti atsimikizire kuti mwanayo akukula bwinobwino ndi kubadwa wathanzi.

Kawirikawiri, mkazi atatha zaka 25 ali wokonzeka kukhala mayi komanso kuchokera m'maganizo, komanso kuchokera ku maganizo. Kuonjezera apo, iye ali ndi zambiri zokhudzana ndi moyo ndi luso, kotero kubadwa kwa mwana sikudzamuwopsyeza. Ndipo ndalama za mwana wazaka 30 zimasiyana kwambiri ndi wazaka 16.

Kuwonjezera pa zoperewera, ambiri mwa iwo amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi matenda a chidziwitso cha amayi, komanso matenda aakulu a ziwalo zina ndi machitidwe. Kuphatikiza apo, amayi amatha kukhala otsika kwambiri, mapepala, omwe nthawi zambiri amachititsa kufunikira kwa gawo lakadwala.

Komabe, kuipa kumeneku kungasinthidwe mosavuta, ngati mutayang'anitsitsa thanzi lanu, m'kupita kukachiritsidwa ndi kusewera masewera kwa moyo wanu wonse.