Chibwenzi chako chinatengedwa kupita kunkhondo? Ndipo simukudziwa momwe mungachitire zinthu zofanana? Sizosadabwitsa, izi sizowoneka, ndipo ndi zachilendo kuti msungwanayo akusokonezeka ndipo sakudziwa choti achite ngati chibwenzi chake chiri msilikali. Tidzayesera kukuthandizani kumvetsetsa malingaliro anu ndi zochita zanu, ndikusankha bwino.
Mwina funso lovuta kwambiri limene limazunza atsikana ndi funso: "Momwe mungayang'anire mnyamata kuchokera kunkhondo?". Yankho ndi lovuta komanso lophweka pa nthawi yomweyo: dikirani ndikukumbukira kuti posachedwapa ntchito yake idzatha ndipo okondedwa anu adzabwerera. Sikoyenera kutembenuza chiyembekezero cha mnyamata kuchokera ku ankhondo kuti adziyika yekha m'ndende zinayi. Pitirizani kutsogolera moyo wamba, pitani ku cinema, mukakumana ndi abwenzi, yendani. Ndiponsotu, ngati chibwenzi chanu ali msilikali, ndiye kuti moyo wanu usayime. Inu mumakonda kukhala moyo mwanjira yina musanakumane naye, sichoncho inu? Ingoganizani kuti palibe chomwe chiri chofunikira ndipo dikirani mpaka chirichonse chibwerere kumalo ake oyenera.
Kodi ndiyenera kuyembekezera mnyamata kuchokera kunkhondo?
Kuyenera kuyamba ndi mfundo yakuti ngati funsoli libadwa m'mutu mwanu, ndiye kuti, kwinakwake pamtima wanu, avomereze zomwezo. Kungakhale kusadalira malingaliro anu, ndiko kuti, mukukayikira kuti mukufuna kupitiriza kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndi munthu uyu atabweranso. Pankhaniyi, mungakulangizeni kwa kanthawi kuti muiwale kuti muli ndi chibwenzi, ndipo chitani zomwe mukufuna. Panthawiyi mudzatha kumvetsa zomwe mukufunikira: kuyembekezera mnyamata kuchokera kunkhondo kapena kuyang'ana yatsopano.
Kodi kulemba mnyamata mumsasa?
Inde, chirichonse. Kuyambira pa zochitika zatsopano zomwe zinachitika mumzinda wanu, ndikumaliza ndi kufotokozera zakukhosi kwanu. Ndipo sikofunikira kwambiri kuti mulembe mnyamata mu ankhondo, ndikofunika bwanji nthawi zambiri zomwe mungachite. Pokubwera mafoni a m'manja, chirichonse chakhala chosavuta kwambiri. Makalata angasinthidwe ndi mafoni ndi ma SMS. Mutha kutumiza ma sms 1 patsiku - sizinthu zambiri. Mukhoza kulengeza uthenga umodzi masiku awiri. Ngati mulemba ndi kutchula pang'ono - mnyamata akhoza kukayika kuti mukumuyembekezera. Komanso yesetsani kusaiwala za makalata, lembani makalata awiri pamwezi - sizikukuvutani, ndipo zidzakhala zabwino kwa mnyamata.
Kodi mungabweretse chiyani msilikali?
Chosankha cholondola kwambiri chidzakhala kupempha kwa iye mwini zomwe alibe. Izi zikhoza kukhala chakudya, komanso zosangalatsa zapakhomo. Inde, simusowa kutenga zowonongeka (mikate, soseji, etc.). Ndi bwino kubweretsa mtedza, zipatso zouma (apricots zouma, prunes, zoumba), pies, gingerbread, maswiti. Funsani ngati chophimba kapena zovala zoyenera ndizofunikira kwa mnyamata, mu gulu nthawi zambiri pamakhala zosokoneza ndi zinthu zoterezi.
Kodi mungamuthandize bwanji msilikali?
Kuwathandiza msilikali kungakhale kumudandaulira mwachidaliro, ndikutsimikizika kuti amamukonda ndikudikirira kunyumba. Kodi mungachite chiyani? Musaiwale kulemba makalata achichepere (monga mwayi - ma-ki-ki), atenge chidwi pazochitika zake, ngati n'kotheka - nthawi zambiri amabwera kwa iye.
Kodi mungapereke chiyani mnyamata pambuyo pa asilikali?
Izi ndizo zowona zokha pamene zingakhale bwino kupatsa tizilombo, koma zomwe zingakukumbutseni zaka zingapo. Koma musathamangire kugula statuettes ndi matanki. Ganizirani bwino pazochita monga gitala, chithunzi, mtsuko, chess, ndi zina. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mphatsoyi sayenera kusungidwa pa shelefu, koma nthawi zina imagwiritsa ntchito.