Ndani ali bwino - mphaka kapena mphaka?

Inu potsiriza munaganiza. Posakhalitsa m'nyumba yanu padzakhala kakang'ono kakang'ono, komwe kadzakhalanso membala wampingo. Vuto lokhalo lidalipo: ndani ndi bwino kupeza kamba kapena kamba? Kuchokera pakusankha kwa kugonana kwa chinyama kumadalira khalidwe lake ndi zina mwa zomwe zili. Choncho, m'pofunika kuyendetsa kafukufuku wochepa, womwe udzakhala "anyamata" ndi "atsikana" a banja lachika.

Zizindikiro zoyerekeza

Zimakhala zovuta kudziwa yemwe ali bwino kuposa kamba kapena kamba, chifukwa munthu aliyense ali ndi zofuna zake za ziweto. Nthawi zambiri nyama imayamba kuzindikira kuti kulipo kwake, ndipo makhalidwe ake onse amavomerezedwa ngati chinthu chosatheka. Ngati simukufuna kupirira zofooka za nyama, ndiye kuti muyenera kusankha mosamala, kuti kusankha kotsiriza kuli koyenera.

Kotero, ndi kakhalidwe ati komwe katsamba kali nayo? Pano mungapange makhalidwe otsatirawa:

• yogwira ntchito, ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale amwano;
• iwo amayamba kusokonezeka ndi ma
• kukula molimba ndi kwakukulu;
• ayenera kukhala ndi mwayi wopita kumsewu.

Mphaka ndi mbuye weniweni mnyumbamo. Amaika malire kuti achepetse nyumba yake ndipo "ma tags" awa alibe fungo losangalatsa kwambiri. Konzekerani kuti khate lanu likhoza kutha masiku angapo ndikubwera kale ndi "kuvulala kunkhondo" komwe mumapezeka pankhondo ndi amphaka. Mosiyana ndi amphaka? Amphaka ndi ovuta komanso odekha. Ali ndi makhalidwe awa:

• chiyeretso;
• chikhumbo chakunama pa maondo anu;
• kusinthika kwa zikhalidwe zilizonse;
• kukhala ndi ana.

Choncho, poyankha funsolo: Ndani ali wachikondi, mphaka kapena mphaka, yankho lake lidzakhala losagwirizana - kamba. Komabe, makhalidwe onsewa ndi ofunika kwambiri, ndipo mumatha kukomana ndi khate lokonda kwambiri komanso katsulo kosasamala. Ngati muli ndi chidwi ndi yemwe ali wochenjera kuposa katchi kapena kamba, yankho lake likhoza kugwera pa kamba. Amphaka, ophweka ndi otseguka, koma amphaka ali ochenjera kwambiri. Panthawi imodzimodziyo amphaka ndi ovuta kuzoloŵera njanji ndi zizoloŵezi zina zothandiza.

Ndi ndani amene angatenge - katchi kapena mphaka?

Choyamba, muyenera kudziwa zosowa zomwe mukukumana nazo. Ngati mukusowa chikondi, ndiye kuti mphaka idzakhala yosankha bwino. Koma ngati simunakonzekere kulandira ana, ndiye kuti chisankho chidzagwa pa mphaka. Inde, n'zotheka kuyamwa mkaka, koma izi sizikuvomerezedwa ndi wina aliyense, chifukwa zimakhala zophweka, ngakhale zili zotetezeka.