Kuyankhula mu loto kungakhale ndi kutanthauzira kwakukulu, zonse zabwino ndi zoipa. Ndicho chifukwa chake kuti mupeze zambiri zolondola, m'pofunika kulingalira mfundo zina: amene zokambiranazo zachitika ndi ndani, pamutu uti, mkhalidwe wotani, ndi zina zotero.
Nchifukwa chiyani tikukambirana?
Kulankhula ndi mtima mu maloto ndi munthu wapafupi kumatanthauza kuti posakhalitsa mavuto adzatha. Ngakhale malotowo angasonyeze mwayi wopanga luso lina latsopano. Ngati zokambiranazo zinali zosasangalatsa, ndiye kuti muyenera kuyembekezera mavuto. Kwa mkazi, kuyankhula ndi chibwenzi ndi chenjezo pokhudzana ndi mavuto omwe akukumana nawo ndi wokondedwa wanu. Kuyankhulana ndi mdani m'maloto ndi chenjezo potsutsa machenjerero ochokera kwa adani. Kuyankhula za ndalama kumalonjeza mavuto a zachuma.
N'chifukwa chiyani mumalota za kukambirana kwa foni?
Nthaŵi zambiri, maloto oterowo akulonjeza kulandira nkhani. Komabe izi zikhoza kusonyeza kuti sitingathe kulankhulana ndi munthu m'moyo weniweni. Kwa amayi, kuyankhula pa foni ndi chibwenzi kumasonyeza chikhumbo chobwerera kuchokera kwa anthu ena ndikukhala nokha ndiwekha.
N'chifukwa chiyani mumalota kukambirana ndi munthu wakufa?
Kuyankhula kwa munthu wakufa ndi chenjezo lokhudza zochitika za matenda. Kwa anthu amalonda, nkhaniyi imalongosola ntchito yambiri, yomwe pamapeto pake ingayambitse kuvutika maganizo .
Bwanji mukulota za ukwati?
Kwa akazi osakwatiwa, malotowo amalosera msonkhano ndi munthu wabwino, yemwe m'tsogolomu akhoza kukhala mwamuna wabwino. Ngati maloto amenewa adawoneka ndi munthu, ndiye kuti muyenera kuyembekezera kuti ziwoneka zopanda pake.
Bwanji mukulota za mimba?
Kwa mtsikana wamng'ono, lotoli limakhala chizindikiro cha kukhalapo kwa chikhumbo chosadziwika chokhazikitsa banja lonse.