Mukadakhala mabwenzi apamtima, koma tsopano si choncho, njira zasiyanitsa njira ndipo aliyense amakhala ndi moyo wawo wokha, koma nthawi zina amakumbukira wina, koma samayesa kupeza chiyanjano kapena kukhalabe ndi ubale weniweni. Ndiyeno tsiku lina inu munalota za bwenzi lakale, ndipo funso linawuka, kodi lotoli likutanthawuza chiyani.
Choyamba, muyenera kuganizira chifukwa chake mudali ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi malotowo. Kodi pali vuto linalake lodziwika bwino, kodi mumamva zachilendo ndipo mutadzuka kapena maloto omwe mzimayi wakale adawonekera, adadabwa kwambiri chifukwa mudali otsimikiza kuti mwaiwalika?
Kuchokera pamalingaliro a psychology, maloto ndi chimodzi mwa mawonetseredwe a chidziwitso chathu, chomwe chiri tsiku ndi tsiku moyo wathu umalepheretsa. Kugonjetsa maganizo kumachepa tikamagona, chidziwitso chimakhala ndi mwayi wotikumbutsa zomwe zimatidetsa nkhawa, ngakhale kuti sitingavomereze.
Ganizirani chifukwa chake mwaleka kuyankhula, ngati maphwando ena adakali ndi zifukwa zawo. Ngati zamoyo zidachitika, mwachitsanzo, mutasunthira, ndipo zokambiranazo pang'onopang'ono zinasiya, ndiye kuti mwangowonongeka ndipo mwakumbukira posachedwapa. Ngati kuyankhulana kwaima chifukwa cha mkangano waukulu, ndiye kuti mwano sizinatheke kapena pali kumverera kolakwa. Zowonjezereka zingakhoze kutengedwera kokha pofufuza zomwe zili mu maloto enaake.
Yankho lina ku funso lakuti "Kodi chibwenzi choyambirira chimalota" chikhoza kukhala kuti mumaganizira mozama za kale ndipo mumaiwala kuyang'ana kutsogolo ndikuganizira zam'tsogolo.
Maloto Ofunsana - wakale bwenzi
Kutanthauzira kwa maloto ndi kutenga nawo mbali mnzanu wapamtima, kuyankhulana komwe kwatha, kungapezekanso m'mabuku a maloto. Ambiri mwa mabuku a maloto amanena kuti ngati mutakhala wabwino kwa iye, malotowo amalonjeza mavuto, kukangana ndi achibale ndi kukangana ndi mnzanu. Ngati, mu loto, mumatsutsana ndi mnzanu, ndiye izi, ndizo chizindikiro chabwino - ubalewo udzasintha.
Ndiponso, malotowa akuphatikizidwa ndi miseche, miseche ndi maliseche kumbuyo kwanu, kotero muyenera
Psychoanalysis imanenanso kuti chibwenzi, ngakhale kale kale, chiri ndi chilakolako chogonana, chomwe chingakhale chenjezo pokhudzana ndi mavuto omwe ali nawo muukwati ndi mnzanu.
Komabe, nkofunika kukumbukira kuti kugona kumatha kunyamula mtundu wina wa chenjezo ndikukhudza moyo wanu pokhapokha mutagwirizanitsa kwambiri. Apo ayi, izo zidzakhalabe maloto chabe.