Kusankha mphatso sikophweka, ndipo nkoyenera kuwerenganso zochitika zosiyanasiyana zomwe zimamveketsa tanthauzo la izi kapena izi.
Anthu amanena kuti kupereka mipeni monga mphatso ndizolakwika. Chikhulupiriro ichi chafika kwa ife kuchokera ku zakuya kwambiri ndipo amadziwika pafupifupi pafupifupi munthu aliyense. Anthu achikulire ankakhulupirira kuti makona oyenda ndi kudula m'mphepete mwanjira inayake amagwirizana ndi mphamvu zoipa. Mpeni umene munthu walandira monga mphatso uli ndi phindu lina: amakhulupirira kuti amachititsa mikangano , chisoni ndi kubweretsa mavuto m'moyo wa munthu amene walandira mphatso. Nthaŵi zambiri, pamakhala kusiyana pakati pa omwe amapereka ndi omwe adalandira mphatso yoteroyo. Zimakhulupirira kuti chinthu chopatsidwa mphatso ndi chakuthwa ndipo chimadula chilichonse, ngakhale ubwenzi weniweni.
Kodi ndizipereka mphatso kwa munthu?
Zikhulupiriro zamtundu umenewu zimagwirizana ndi nthawi imene anthu ankakhulupirira zamatsenga ndi kuzigwiritsa ntchito pokwaniritsa zolinga zosiyana. Kwa miyambo yamtundu uliwonse ndi zamatsenga, amatsenga ndi a shaman amagwiritsa ntchito mipeni. Anthu akhala akuopa anthu omwe ali ndi mphamvu yakuda ndipo amawopa ngati iwo. Kotero, zikhumbo zomwe zinagwiritsidwa ntchito mu ufiti zinayikidwa mu gulu la mantha oletsedwa ndi opitirira. Izi ndizochokera apa ndikupita mizu ya chizindikiro cha mpeni monga mphatso kwa munthu komanso masoka achilengedwe.
Palinso chizindikiro china: Munthu amene mpeni wapatsidwa apereke ndalama kwa ndalama kapena ndalamazo ndipo palibe choopsa chochitika. Pankhaniyi, palibe mphatso, koma mtundu wa kugula.
Kodi anthu ena amapereka mphatso ngati mphatso? Tiyenera kuzindikira miyambo ya anthu a ku Caucasus. M'dziko lino, mipeni ndi mphatso yamtengo wapatali kwambiri kwa munthu. M'mayiko ambiri a ku Central Asia mipeni amaonedwa kuti ndi chithumwa champhamvu kuchokera ku mizimu yoyipa ndi kuipa.
Kukhulupirira kapena ayi mu zizindikiro zimenezi ndi nkhani yachinsinsi kwa aliyense.