Amayi ambiri, makamaka zaka zoyambirira zaukwati, masiku okumbukira kubadwa kwa apongozi awo akuyembekezera mosamala, ngati kuti ndi mayeso ovuta. Pofuna kupewa kupeputsidwa ndi kutsutsidwa ndi amayi a mwamuna wake, amasokonezeka posankha mphatso yabwino. Inde, kugula bwinoko kumathandiza kukhazikitsa maubwenzi, kusankha chisankho choyenera pamtima. Kusankha kwa mphatso yapachiyambi ya apongozi ake makamaka kumadalira mtundu wa mayi, ntchito yake, malingaliro ake pa moyo, choncho muyenera kupita kukonzekera tsiku lobadwa. Choyamba, funsani mwamuna wake mwakachetechete, chifukwa amangofunikira kumvetsa pang'ono za zosangalatsa za amayi ake. Ngati pabungwe la banja muli zovuta ndi kusankha mphatso, ndiye gwiritsani ntchito malingaliro abwino kwambiri omwe abambo ambiri abwera kale kwa inu.
Kodi ndingapereke bwanji apongozi anga za tsiku lobadwa?
Azimayi amalonda amaonetsetsa kuti pali zinthu zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito kakhitchini kapena kunyumba. M'malo mwa zida zina zowonongeka, ayenera kupereka chinthu china chofunika - chovala chophimba, nsalu, mipiringidzo yogona, mipando yodalirika ya dacha kapena khitchini, chandelier, chipangizo cha pakhomo. Ngati alibe tiyi wokongola kapena mphika wa kukula kwake, kenaka tipezani mbale zabwino za tsiku la kubadwa kwa tsiku lake lobadwa.
Zindikirani kuti zipangizo zamakono sizikusowa zambiri, ndipo ngati mayiyo sanagwire ntchito ndi multivariate kapena mkate , zimatenga nthawi kuti adziwe kuti mumamukonda. Koma ngati kugwiritsira ntchito chipangizo chokhitchini chiri bwino, apongozi ako adzakuyamikirani kwa zaka zambiri. Onetsetsani kuti mumugulire buku ndi maphikidwe, kapangidwe ka zida zowonjezera ndi makapu, izi zidzamupangitsa kukhala kosavuta kumudziwa bwino.
Ngati mayi wa mwamuna wanu akadakali wamng'ono, wogwira ntchito komanso wamalonda, ndiye kuti funso loti mupereke apongozi anu kuti likhale lachikumbutso, limathetsedwa mosavuta. Patsiku lomaliza, akhoza kupereka laputopu, piritsi, foni yamakono ndi yamtengo wapatali, njira ina yodabwitsa yopita kunyumba ndi ntchito. Mayi wamakono sangakane tikiti ku konsati yam'kalasi, ulendo wopita ku zisudzo, kuchoka ku chiphaso kupita ku salon kapena kumalo odyera. Inde, mphatso iliyonse iyenera kukonzedwa mwaluso, kotero kuti kukongola kokongoletsa kumapangitsanso kulimbikitsa kuwonetsera kwa kuwonetsera ndikugogomezera chikondi chako.