Akazi ambiri amafuna kudziwa momwe angakhalire ndi dona weniweni kuti agwirizane ndi mafano awo, monga momwe amachitira okha ndikupanga chidwi m'magulu. Pali mawu otere: Madzimayi sanabadwe, amayiwo amakhala. Ndipo awa ndi mawu enieni, chifukwa kukhala mayi sikophweka monga zikuwonekera, ndipo kuthekera kukhala kofunikira kuphunzitsidwa nokha. Tiyeni tiwone bwinobwino funso ili lophweka ndi losavuta.
Momwe mungakhalire mayi weniweni?
Choncho, njira yothetsera dona ikuphatikizapo mbali zingapo - maonekedwe, zovala, khalidwe ndi chikhalidwe. Zonsezi ndizofunikira, chifukwa, posasamala chimodzi mwa izo, zotsatira zake sizingatheke. Dziweruzireni nokha: kodi n'zotheka kuitana dona msungwana wovala bwino, wokongoletsedwa bwino, komanso akugwiritsa ntchito chinenero chamanyazi ndi fodya m'malo ammalo? Izi sizingatheke. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kukhala mayi weniweni, muyenera kutsatira mfundo zonsezi.
Kotero, zimatanthauzanji kukhala dona weniweni? Ndi, ndithudi, nthawi zonse kudziyang'anira wekha, mawonekedwe anu ndi khalidwe lanu. Mayi weniweni, mophiphiritsira, amathera moyo wake wonse m'maguluvesi a mwana, popanda kudziletsa kwathunthu, koma nthawi imodzimodziyo ali ndi ndondomeko yokhudza khalidwe ndi moyo. Kuti timvetse izi mwatsatanetsatane ndi kumvetsetsa momwe tingakhalire mayi weniweni, tiyeni tidziwe malangizo angapo ophweka omwe angathandize pa njira iyi yaminga kupita ku yofunayo.
Malamulo a mayi uyu
Maonekedwe. Choyamba, tiye tiwone momwe mkazi weniweni amavalira, chifukwa kusintha kwina kuli koyamba, ndi kosavuta. Zovala siziyenera kukhala zamdima kapena zotseguka. Mkaziyo ayenera kuvala mokongola, chachikazi, mokongola, ndipo palibe vuto lililonse. Kumbukirani kuti atsikana akamvekanso moyera, samadzichitira okha, koma kuti azitenga chidwi ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma amayi enieni amavala bwino kwambiri, kuti ayang'ane pagalasi kuti azisangalala ndi maonekedwe awo. Choncho, valani, kuganizira, choyamba, za inu nokha. Mofananamo, muzidzola ndi tsitsi. Komanso, usaiwale kuti mapangidwe owala kwambiri pa tsiku ndi mawonetseredwe a kulawa koyipa ndipo mwachizoloŵezi, zambiri zachilengedwe m'chithunzi, zimakhala zabwino.
Makhalidwe. Malingaliro a mkazi weniweni amatanthauza zambiri ndipo nthawi zonse amabwera koyamba. Ndipotu, mulimonse momwe mulili, nkofunika kukhala ndi ulemu. Zovuta kuona sizidzadabwitsa munthu aliyense, koma kupirira kumayambitsa kuyamikira. Makhalidwe a mayi uyu nthawi zonse ndi osatheka. Amadziwa momwe angakhalire ndi anthu, nthawi zonse amanena mawu oyamikira komanso omvera modzichepetsa. Komanso, mayi akhoza kunena "ayi" pamene amapereka chinachake chimene sakuchikonda. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, ziyenera kudziwika kuti dona weniweni nthawi zonse amakhala wokongola komanso kumwetulira kosangalatsa, kosangalatsa ena.
Maphunziro. Komanso, mayi weniweni sayenera kuiwala za maphunziro ake. Ngati mukufuna kuti mukhale dona weniweni, ndiye kuti nthawi zonse muzitha kuwonjezera zolemba zanu: werengani mabuku osiyanasiyana, khalani ndi chidwi ndi madera ena a sayansi ndi luso limene mukukongola, kuyenda. Musaiwale kuti mayi weniweni sali wokongola komanso wokoma mtima, ayenera kukhala ndi chuma mkati.
Mabungwe a momwe angakhalire mayi weniweni, mukhoza kupereka zambiri, chifukwa pali malamulo ambiri omwe mayi ayenera kutsatira. Mwachitsanzo, zakudya zoyenera komanso moyo wathanzi. Koma tiyenera kuyamba pang'ono. Choncho, ngati mutasankha nokha kuti mukufuna kukhala dona weniweni, yambani pang'ono ndi chinachake, ndipo musayime pa zomwe zapindula, ndipo zina zonse zidzatsatile.
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