Monga lamulo, amuna amakhala ndi ziphuphu pambuyo pa kugonana. Ndipo ngakhale, amayi ena adakali ndi chidaliro chonse mu luso lawo, ndipo akulota kuti adziwe momwe angabweretsere munthu kuti adziwe. Komabe, mu kugonana, monga muzinthu zina zambiri, palibe malire ku ungwiro. Ndipo nthawi zonse mumatha kupeza njira zatsopano zoperekera chisangalalo chapadera kwa mnzanuyo.
Momwe mungabweretsere munthu kumaliseche?
Ngati mukufuna kupereka chisangalalo chosamveka kwa mwamuna, izi zikhoza kuchitika m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Pachifukwa ichi, mwamsanga mubweretse kuwonongeka, munthu akhoza kukhala pa 70%, koma ndibwino kuti atsegulire zosangalatsa.
Mulimonse momwe mungasankhire, musaiwale za kufunikira kwa mawonekedwe: amuna ngati maso, kotero muyenera kuyang'ana bwino: thupi lofewa, tsitsi lonse losafunika, kuchotsa manicure ndi pedicure ndizokwanira, pa nkhope yosavuta (kapena ngakhale yowala) kupanga, kuvala sexy lingerie . Musaiwale za dontho la fungo lachiwerewere - ndibwino ngakhale mizimu, komanso mafuta oyenera.
Kotero, mutatha kukonzekera, mukhoza kusankha njira iliyonse:
- Bweretsani munthuyo ndi manja ake. Njira imeneyi imagwiritsidwa ntchito kumapeto kwa kugonana, kapena ngati kugonana sikutheka pa chifukwa chilichonse. Pano mukufunika kukhala wofewa ndi mphamvu: Njira yabwino yomwe abambo angagwirire ndi kayendetsedwe kosangalatsa pafupi ndi mutu wa mbolo, koma mbali zina zonse ziyenera kupatsidwa chidwi. Funsani mnzanuyo kuti afotokoze njira yomwe adafuna kuti amupatse chisangalalo chokwanira.
- Bweretsani munthuyo kumaliseche panthawi yogonana. Njirayi ndi yophweka, yotsika mtengo komanso yabwino. Zonse zomwe zimafunikira kwa inu - chilakolako choposa! Amuna amavomereza bwino kuwonetsera kokoma, kukhalapo kwa galasi m'chipinda momwe mungathe kudutsamo ndondomeko yonse, kuyimba kwa mitundu yonse, ndi khalidwe lolimbika. Pakati pa kugonana, n'zotheka kuchita masewera m'munsi mwa mbolo ndi phokoso, kulimbikitsa zowawa za mnzanuyo.
- Bweretsani munthuyo kumalankhula pamlomo. Mwinanso, n'zovuta kupeza munthu yemwe sakonda kumwa mankhwala otukwana. Amakonda zozizwitsa zokhazokha ndi zokondweretsa - amatha kuona njira yonse, yomwe imakondweretsa kwambiri. Ndi bwino kupanga kayendedwe kosiyana ndikudzithandizira ndi manja anu. Mwachitsanzo, milomo ndi lilime zimatha kupweteka mutu, ndipo manja amayenda pansi ndi pansi. Chinthu chachikulu sichikhudza munthu amene ali ndi mano, chifukwa gawo ili la thupi ndi lodziwika bwino kwa amuna, ndipo ululu ndi kukhudzana koteroko sikudzayendera aliyense.
Pali njira zambiri zowonjezeretsa munthu, koma ngati muli ndi zitatu (kapena ziwiri) - mutha kudziona nokha kuti ndinu wokonda kwambiri.
Momwe mungabweretsere munthu kumalankhula m'mawu?
Ngati mwapatulidwa, ndizotheka kukhala paubwenzi wapamtima, kugonana pogwiritsa ntchito foni kapena makalata. Pofuna kumubweretsa munthu, muyenera kuyika malingaliro anu onse.
- Kukambirana kawirikawiri kumayamba ndi kukambirana za zomwe zavala pa mkazi. Ngakhale mutakhala chovala chokwanira panyumba, ndibwino kuti mubwere ndi chinachake chothandizira munthuyo kugwira moto, ndikukuganizirani mu chinthu choterocho.
- Pambuyo pa izi, ndizofunikira kudza ndi malo omwe ntchitoyi idzachitike. Kawirikawiri amasankha chinthu chosakhala chachilendo ndipo kotero chosangalatsa.
- Kenaka akuyamba kufotokoza za ndondomeko yokha - amene adampsompsona yemwe, zomwe anachita, zomwe anamva.
- Pambuyo pake, zochita zoterezi zatha, ndizofunika kunena zabwino ndi kukanika.
Mabanja ambiri amachita izi mwa kulekanitsa, ndipo mwa mawu awo munthu amabweretsa chiwonongeko kwa mkazi palibe choposa kuposa mkazi - mwamuna. Kawirikawiri amayi amachita manyazi ngati samasulidwa, kotero anthu ena amasankha kumwa kapu ya vinyo isanafike.