Kwa amayi ambiri, khalidwe la munthu wa khansa ndilo chinsinsi chosatheka, chifukwa munthu uyu nthawi zambiri amapanga lingaliro limodzi, koma mkati mwake ndilosiyana kwambiri. Izi zimachokera ku chiopsezo chake komanso kufuna kwake kubisa zomwe iye akufuna kuti pasakhale wina amene angamuvulaze.
Kodi amuna a khansa ndi otani?
Kunja, Khansa ndi munthu wamakhalidwe abwino, woona mtima, wachifundo, womvera. Iwo samavomereza okha alendo, koma ndi okondedwa akhoza kumasuka ndi kutseguka. Mu moyo awa ndi anthu oseketsa, koma nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi nthawi ya kukhumudwa, kupsinjika, kusakhulupirira mwa iwo okha. Monga lamulo, maganizo awo angasinthe m'chigawo chimodzi, ndipo zimatenga nthawi yaitali kuti ayambe kulimba mtima.
Gawo lovuta kwambiri ndi lakuti maganizo a khansa akulandira, ndipo ngati pali chikhalidwe chofewa komanso chodziwika pafupi ndi icho, ndiye kuti adzavutika nawo limodzi.
Makhalidwe a Khansa yaamuna
Taganizirani mndandanda wa zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe zimaonetsa Khansa ndikulola kumvetsa bwino munthu wotereyu:
- iye amatha kuwona ndi samoyedstvu;
- musamupatse iye chifukwa chokayikira zolinga zanu zabwino;
- ali ndi chosowa chachikulu kuti akhale paubwenzi wabwino ndi ena;
- iye amakondwera kwambiri ndi makolo ake, amayi ake;
- iye ayenera kumverera kuti iye amalemekezedwa ndipo amakondedwa kukhala wokondwa;
- Khansara ikhoza kukhala depot mkati mwake
banja, ngati sililiyika pamalo panthawi; - iye mosakayikira akukwatirana, chifukwa iye sakonda kusintha;
- Kansa ndikutsimikiza kuti iye ndi wofunika kwambiri kuposa mkazi wake ndipo zosoŵa zake ndizopambana ndi zapamwamba;
- iye amasankha mkazi yekha mwa kulingalira, poyerekeza ndi ena;
- Khansara ikapeza mkazi wake, ali wokonzeka kuyika dziko lonse ku mapazi ake;
- nyumba yake ndiye linga lake.
Kuti mugwirizane ndi Khansa, muyenera kukhala wodzidalira mwa mkazi yemwe amadziwa zomwe akufuna komanso sakuchita ndi momwe akumvera .