Mgwirizano wa Akazi

Aliyense amatanthauzira mawu oti "mgwirizano" mwa njira yake. Kwa wina ndizo chithandizo, chithandizo, wina amakhulupirira kuti ndizofunikira kumvetsetsa izi monga mgwirizano wokhazikika. Ambiri ali ndi mphekesera za mawu akuti "mwamuna wogwirizana." Ndipo, ziribe kanthu momwe zingamve zomvetsa chisoni, koma mgwirizano, wogwirizana ndi kugonana kokongola, timakumana mocheperapo, kapena ayi. Tiyeni tiyesetse kumvetsa chomwe chigwirizano cha akazi chiri.

Mgwirizano wa amayi ndi chinthu chapadera chomwe chili ndi mphamvu zamphamvu pamene atsikana amagwirizanitsa. Zotsatira zake, pamakhala zipolopolo kapena zopweteka. Zimakhulupirira kuti mgwirizano wa amayi ndi chikhalidwe chokha cha muzhenenavistnitsam. Milandu ina imatsimikizira kuti pali mgwirizano wazimayi pamene abwenzi apamtima akuyenera kutetezedwa wina ndi mzake pamaso pa amuna kapena abwenzi awo. Izi, mwachiwonekere, zimaonedwa kuti ndizopadera, pamene chibwenzi chachikazi sichiopsezedwa ndi chiwonongeko. Koma izi zimatha mpaka nthawi yomwe mabwenzi a amayi samayang'ana kufunafuna zibwenzi, kotero kuti, atalephera kugawa wokondedwa pakati pawo, amakangana. Ndipo zimakhala zovuta kutchula mgwirizano.

Mgwirizano wa amayi ndi mgwirizano wa amuna, omwe ali ndi tanthauzo losiyana ndi mizu. Mfundo ziwirizi siziyenera kuyerekezera. Ndimakumbukira kuwonetsera kokondweretsa poyankha izi:

1. Pankhani ya mgwirizano wa amayi: Mkazi, yemwe sanagone usiku, adzafotokoza izi ponena kuti adagona usiku ndi bwenzi lake. Pamene mwamuna ayamba kulira abwenzi ake, kenaka poyankha aliyense adzamva kuti alibe.
2. Mgwirizano wa amuna udzadziwonetsera motere: Mkazi atatchula anzake onse a mwamuna wake, amamva kuti: aliyense adatsimikizira kuti wagona nawo ndipo atatu adzalengeza kuti akuwachezera.

Ichi ndi chitsanzo chowunikira cha kuthandizana pakati pa amai ndi abambo. Mwamuna nthawi zonse amakhala wokonzeka kupereka "thandizo" ndipo izi ndi chifukwa chakuti ali pa msinkhu wosadziwika amayesetsa kudzikweza yekha kuti athandizidwe mtsogolo ndi anthu omwe wawakhudza pa nthawi yoyenera kwa iwo.

Komanso, mgwirizano wa amayi udzakhalapo, Ngakhale sizipita ku ngozi za zofuna za amai ndi maudindo. Mgwirizano wa azimayi umapangitsa kukhumudwa komanso mavuto ambiri amuna ali ndi mlandu. Ndipo muzochitika zotero zikuwoneka kuti mgwirizano pakati pa anthu ogonana ofooka sizowonjezera mwayi wodzilungamitsa ndi kuthandizidwa ndi ambiri.

Kuti ndifotokoze mwachidule, ndikufuna kunena kuti "mgwirizano" ndi wofunika kwambiri pa chikhalidwe cha amuna. Ndi okhawo omwe angathandizane wina ndi mzake mopanda dyera, monga oyendetsa galimoto, kuthandizana wina ndi mzake mkhalidwe womwewo. Ndipo izi siziri zolakwika za amai, kungoganiza za abambo ndi amai ndizosiyana, zomwe zimapangitsa kumvetsetsa kwa "mgwirizano".