Mwazochita zonse zauzimu, ndiko kuwerenga kwa malingaliro nthawi zonse komwe kumakhalabe imodzi mwa luso lofunika kwambiri kwa anthu ambiri. Pambuyo pake, izi zingatipulumutse ku chinyengo ndi malingaliro. Pakali pano pali njira zingapo zomwe zimabweretsa zotsatira zochititsa chidwi. Zoonadi, izi sizikugwirizana ndi zomwe timawona mu mafilimu a "fantasy" mtundu, koma zingathe kuthandizira pazinthu zambiri.
Njira yosavuta yowerengera
Pali lingaliro lakuti tonsefe timatha kuwerenga malingaliro. Maganizo ndi fano limene limatanthauza chinthu china chokongoletsera kapena chosamveka. Ndipo ngati lingaliroli likugwira ntchito kwa munthu aliyense, ilo lidzakhudzadi ubale weniweni ndi munthu uyu. Pachifukwa ichi, chitsanzo chosavuta chowerenga maganizo a wina ndikuwonetseratu zaukali pakati pa anthu omwe sanasemphane poyera, ndipo pokhapokha m'maganizo, m'maganizo mwawo simunagwirizane. Komabe, n'zosatheka kuzindikira kugwirizana koteroko, chifukwa kumapitirira pa msinkhu wosadziwika.
Kuchokera pa izi, kuphatikizapo zowerengeka za kuwerenga maganizo patali ndi kotheka: kukambirana kotengera. Tengani bwino, pumulani, mosamala kulingalira munthu amene mukuganiza kuti mukufuna kuwerenga. Funsani mafunso ndi kumvetsera mayankho ake. Chofunika kwambiri ndi kuyankhulana kuchokera kudziko la kusinkhasinkha kapena kugonana .
Mumasintha mosavuta malingaliro anu kuchokera kumtima weniweni wogwirizana: simukuyenera kuganiza kuti mupeze yankho, lidzachokera kwinakwake kuchokera kunja. Ndibwino kwambiri kuyankhulana, ngati mukuchita masewero m'mawa, mutangogona pang'ono, kapena usiku, mukakhala mukugona.
Pamene mukupita ku malo otchedwa " kugona tulo, " zimakhala bwino. Ngati muzindikira zenizeni zomwe zikukuyenderani inu monga malotowo, koma mutha kugwiritsa ntchito chithunzichi mwakufuna kwanu, ndiye kuti mukuyenda bwino. Mukhoza kuphunzira izi mu masabata awiri mpaka 8, malingana ndi luso lanu loyambirira.
Kuwerenga maganizo: njira yochokera kumvetsera
Iyi ndi njira yovuta kwambiri, kuphatikizapo kuwerenga malingaliro pamaso ndi luso lowerenga pakati pa mizere. Pamene munthu akunena chinachake, nthawi zonse mumakhala ndi maganizo ena, ndipo mumatha kuphunziranso ngati mukusamala, mukulimbikira ndi kupirira mu maphunziro anu.
- Monga lamulo, mu nkhani iyi, chizolowezi chimayamba ndi luso loletsa kuyankhulana kwa mkati. Izi ndi zovuta kwambiri kwa oyamba kumene. Ngati mutadziyang'ana nokha, posachedwapa mudzapeza kuti nthawi zonse mkati mwanu liwu likuwomba, kutchula maganizo anu. Ndikofunika kuti mupumule ndikuganiziranso pamtendere womwe mumamva, ndipo musalole kuti mumaganizire. Sungani kumvetsera kwanu kwa masekondi khumi. Wonjezerani nthawiyi mpaka mphindi zisanu ndi zisanu.
- Mukaphunzira kusunga dziko kunja kwa kukambirana, muyenera kusintha kusinkhasinkha, zomwe zidzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa kwanu. Pali njira zambiri zoterezi. Oyamba oyamba kupuma mphindi khumi ndi abwino:
Lembani pansi, khalani chete ndikuganizira kwambiri za kupuma. Kupuma mu mawerengero asanu ndi atatu ndi kutulutsa pang'onopang'ono. Pakati pa kusinkhasinkha, mudzalandira chisangalalo chakuya kwambiri ndikudziŵika. - Mukadziwa bwino zida zonsezi, mudzatha kukhazikitsa chete mkati mwanu ndipo mvetserani mwatcheru zizindikiro zomwe zimachokera kwa munthu amene mukufuna kuwerenga. Pang'onopang'ono mudzayamba kuganizira malingaliro ndi zithunzi zomwe zimabwera kuchokera kwa munthuyo.
Musati mudikire zotsatira zofulumira. Izi zingatenge miyezi ndi zaka. Ponena za kutetezedwa ku kuwerenga maganizo kuchokera kwa anthu ena - palibe chodziŵika. Ena amalangiza ziwembu, zowonjezera zina. Koma chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa chiŵerengero cha anthu omwe ali ndi zizolowezi zotere, mwina simuyenera kuchita mantha.