Munthu amanga dongosolo lake lazinthu zamtengo wapatali mu dongosolo lachidziwitso: Zochitika zosiyanasiyana, zinthu ndi zozizwitsa zili ndi munthu wosiyana, mtengo ndi kufunika kwake. Pozindikira kufunika kwake kwa umunthu, udindo wofunika umasewera ndi zolimbikitsa , mbiri, chikhalidwe, komanso zochitika za munthu. Pali zikhalidwe zomwe zakhala zikuchitika m'mbiri yakale ndipo zili ndi chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe ichi, koma pali zomwe munthu wapanga chifukwa cha kukhala ndi iwo enieni.
Zinthu zakuthupi ndi zauzimu
Palibe chidziwitso chodziwika bwino komanso chodziŵika padziko lonse pa zikhalidwe ndi malingaliro apamwamba a munthu aliyense, koma tikhoza kudziwonera tokha poona nkhope zomwe zimakhala ndi zikhalidwe za umunthu.
Gawo lofala kwambiri la malingaliro a munthu pa psychology ndi zinthu zakuthupi ndi zauzimu.
Kawirikawiri, anthu ndi obadwa mwa onse awiri, koma aliyense wa ife ali ndi chizoloŵezi chopindulitsa chimodzi mwaziwirizi. Mkhalidwe uliwonse wa malire mu chikhalidwe chamtengo wapatali ukhoza kuwonetsa kuwonongeka kwakukulu mu miyezo ya moyo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati munthu akutsogoleredwa ndi zinthu zakuthupi, akhoza mosavuta kupitirira malire a zomwe zimaloledwa m'banjamo ndikukhala womasuka. Kusiyana kwa ndondomeko - kunyengerera mopitirira muyeso ndi kuchuluka kwa zinthu za uzimu kudzawongolera kuvuta koyambitsa zochitika zapanyumba zapanyumba.
Makhalidwe ndi gulu limodzi
Komanso, zolinga ndi zofunikira za munthuyo zimagawidwa kukhala gulu ndi munthu aliyense. Makhalidwe a magulu akutsogoleredwa ntchito za gulu, palimodzi, gulu limene ambiri amagawana nawo ndondomekoyi.
Makhalidwe a munthu amakhazikitsidwa ndi munthu panthawi ya chitukuko chaumwini. Komabe, pali zinthu zowonjezera zomwe zingakhudze makhalidwe a munthu - pakati pa maganizo awo, uchidakwa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
Kusamvana kwa makhalidwe
Mowa sungangopangitsanso kuswa kwa mtengo wapatali, komanso zotsatira zake. Izi zimachitika kuti pamene zinthu zakunja zikusintha, mwayi wozindikira, zikhalidwe za munthuyo zimakhala zofanana, zowonjezereka, ndipo munthu sangathe kukhutira.
Panthawi imodzimodziyo, malingaliro ndi malingaliro a munthu aliyense angathe kuwonjezeka (osati zofanana ndi luso, luso ndi luso la munthu payekha) komanso kufika pofikira, koma pa nthawi yomweyo, munthu pa zifukwa zina alibe mwayi wakukwaniritsa. Pachifukwa ichi, atatha kupsinjika maganizo kwa psyche, matenda opatsirana amayamba.
Ndipo chikhalidwe chinali chofunikira kwambiri - kukhutira ndi njala (pali bulimia), kapena kukhutira ndi zosowa za kugonana.