Chiwerengero chachikulu cha anthu padziko lonse lapansi chimadziona kuti ndichosungulumwa. Iwo ali okonzekera zambiri, ngati kuti apeze moyo wawo wokhazikika ndi kumanga ubale wamphamvu. Pali njira zamatsenga zomwe zingathetsere kusungulumwa.
Mwambo wokonda chikondi
Amene akufuna kukwaniritsa theka lina akhoza kuchita mwambo wosavuta mwezi wonse. Tiyenera kupita kuwindo ndikuyang'ana kumwamba. Tsekani maso anu ndikuganiza za munthu wa maloto anu. Tikulimbikitsidwa kufotokozera mwatsatanetsatane mwatsatanetsatane chifaniziro chake, makhalidwe ake, ndi zina zotero. Chiwongoladzanja chithunzichi, ndi bwino kukhala ndi mwayi wopambana. Poyang'ana mwezi, fotokozani chiwembu chokopa chikondi:
"Ndi munda, ndi nkhalango, ukuyandama panyanja, chikondi changa chimayenda mlengalenga, palibe amene akuchifuna. Kotero kwinakwake chikondi chako chimapitanso-chimayendayenda, kenako nkudandaula, ndiye nyimboyo ikuyamba. Monga dzuwa likumana ndi mwezi kumwamba, kotero tidzakumana. Kotero zikhale choncho. Amen. "
Mwambowu ukhoza kubwerezedwa mu mwezi wotsatira.
Kuchita mwambo wokopa kukonda chikondi m'moyo wanu
Mwambo wina, umene umayenera kukhala mwezi wokha. Pochita izi, muyenera kukonzekera nsalu ya pansalu ya pinki, chidutswa cha zojambulazo, 2 makandulo oyera ndi zoyikapo nyali, choko wofiira ndi pini. Dzuŵa likadutsa pa tebulo lakulumikiza ndi choko mutenge mtima ndipo pakati muike makandulo ndi choyikapo nyali. Awaleni iwo ndi masewera ndipo kambiranani ndi mulungu wamkazi wachikondi:
"Mayi wamkazi wamkulu, ndikufuna thandizo lanu, ndikupempha mphamvu zanu. Kuwala ndi kusunga chikondi chachikondi cha mitima iwiri. Tiyeni chikondi chathu chikhale cholimba komanso chikhale ndi chimwemwe chokha. "
Pakati pausiku pa chinsalu chosungunuka cha sera, lembani nokha ndi dzina la wosankhidwayo. Pangani phula la mtima, likulani ndi zojambulazo ndikubiseni pamalo obisika.
Kulira chifukwa chokopa chikondi
Pali chiwerengero chachikulu cha matsenga omwe amathandiza kupeza munthu wapamtima. Zina mwazinthu zingathe kudziwika: Njira yothandiza kwambiri ndiyo chikondi, chomwe chimaphatikizapo maulendo anayi: Mannaz, Gebo, Feu ndi Uruz. Njirayi imathandiza osati kuthetsa kusungulumwa, komanso kusunga ndi kukonzanso maganizo.
Ngati mutangoyamba ubale , ndiye kuti mungagwiritse ntchito kuyendetsa kukonda chikondi cha winawake
Kwa maanja amene asokonezeka maganizo, kukangana ndi kusamvana kwakukulu kunayamba kuwuka, njirayi iyenera kutsutsana: Gebo, Kano, Laguz. Kuphatikiza kotere kumathandiza anthu osakwatira kukomana.
Ndi bwino kupanga chiwongoladzanja kuti chikope chikondi ndi kugwiritsa ntchito kuthamanga. Ndi bwino kusankha mwala wozungulira kapena chidutswa cha nkhuni. Pa chinthu chosankhidwa, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito njirayi. Pa izi, muyenera kufotokoza momveka bwino chilakolako chanu, mwachitsanzo, "Ndikufuna kukwatira", "Ndikufuna kupeza munthu wolemera", ndi zina zotero. Pogwiritsa ntchito chithunzithunzi cha dzanja, tsatanetsatane mukuganiza za tsogolo la wosankhidwa ndikuganiza za ubalewu. Tikulimbikitsidwa kuti tiganizire zazing'ono ndi zamatsenga kamodzi patsiku.