Akazi kuyambira nthawi zakale adakonda kukonda matsenga, zomwe zathandiza kuthetsa mavuto awo. Olemekezeka kwambiri amakhala akunyoza kwambiri chifukwa cha chikondi cha mwamuna kapena mnyamata amene ali ochepa koma amphamvu. Ayenera kutchulidwa mukunong'oneza, komwe kumakupatsani inu mawu amphamvu. Pali zambiri zoterezi ndipo izi zimapereka mwayi kuthetsa mavuto ambiri.
Amanong'oneza pa chikondi cha munthu
Atsikana ambiri amavutika ndi kusungulumwa kwawo, akulakalaka kukumana ndi munthu woyenera moyo. Kuti mubweretse tsiku la msonkhano ndi munthu wabwino, muyenera kuwerenga mawu amatsenga madzulo:
"Misewu imapindika, mphepo, kenako imatha kusintha. Kotero, lolani tsogolo langa likhale ndi vuto lina. Chomwe chimapangidwira - chidzakwaniritsidwa, chimene chikulingalira - chidzakwaniritsidwa. "
Pakakhala kuti pali mwamuna yemwe amachititsa kuti amve chifundo, koma sakuwongolera, ndiye kuti atenge chidwi chake palibenso chiwembu china. Kuti muchite mwambo wosavuta, muyenera kugula nsalu yofiira, kuponyera mu dziwe lirilonse ndi kunena kuti kunong'oneza kuti kukope chikondi:
"Kupangitsa kuti mphukira yanga ikhale ndi maluwa, ndi mtima wanga (dzina) kuti ndiwotche."
Pali spell yokonzedweratu kuti galimoto ina ikhale yolakalaka, motero chizoloŵezi chosavuta. Kudandaula sikungapweteke, monga momwe ntchitoyi ikugwiritsire ntchito, koma mphamvu yake ndi yaikulu. Mukhoza kuziwerenga pafupi ndi chinthu chopembedzedwa, mwachitsanzo, pamene mukuyendetsa galimoto zonyamula anthu, koma mphamvu imatengedwa ngati kung'ung'udza chifukwa cha chikondi cha munthu patali, koma ndiye kuyang'ana kwakukulu n'kofunika. Mawu a spell ndi osavuta:
"Ine sindikupuma-ine ndikuchipeza icho.
Kuchokera mwa ine-mpweya wotuluka,
Ndipo mwa inu - mpweya.
Kuti mukhale opanda ine. "
Ngati pali kukayikira kuti wokondedwa wanu ali ndi wina, mungathe kuchotsa womutsutsa wanu ndikumveketsa. Kuti matsenga akwaniritse muyenera kudziwa dzina la mpikisano. Tengani adyo ndikuyiyika m'thumba la zovala zanu zosankhidwa, ponena mawu awa:
"Tayani adyo, iponyeni pamtima ndi (dzina la mpikisano)."
Pamene wokondedwa amapeza ndikuchotsa adyo, ndiye kuti matsenga adzagwira ntchito, ndipo maganizo ake ayamba kuchepa. Mungagwiritse ntchito chinthu china chilichonse chosafunikira m'malo mwa adyo, chimene mwamunayo angataya kunja, koma musaiwale kusintha mau a chiwembucho.
Ngati ubalewu wakhalapo kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo malingaliro amatha, ndiye kuti mungagwiritse ntchito mawu onyoza kwambiri pa chikondi cha munthu, chomwe chingakuthandizeni kuti muzimva zonse ngati nthawi yoyamba. Chiwembucho n'chophweka kwambiri:
"Kuchokera mu thupi ndi kulowa mu thupi, chikondi.
Magazi anga, koma chikondi chanu.
Ndikonde kwambiri kuposa ine.
Prutik m'nkhalango amaweramitsa, ndimamva komwe ndimamatira. "
Ambiri a zidandaulo zachiwerewere kuti wokondedwa sapanga zopereka. Kuti mumusunthire ku sitepe yofunikayi, mukhoza kufunsa chithandizo chamatsenga. Ndikofunika kutenga mkate wambiri, mchere komanso kuwerenga wong'onong'ono ngati iyi:
"Lolani alendo kuti asonkhane m'nyumba yathu, adye mkate ndi mchere pa dziko loona mtima, komanso pa phwando laukwati. Osati zaka 10 kenako, koma chaka chino ".