Kugonana ndi achinyamata

Kupeza mwana wake wamkulu chifukwa cha ntchito "yonyansa" komanso "yoopsa" monga kuseweretsa maliseche, makolo ambiri amayamba kuda nkhaŵa, kuyang'anitsitsa ndikuwopsyeza anawo, popanda kuganizira zotsatira za khalidwe lawo. Ndipo ngati maliseche achichepere akuvulaza, kwenikweni, zimayambitsa zotani, ndi momwe mungakhalire bwino mukamaphunzira za chizoloŵezi chovulaza cha mwana wamwamuna kapena wamkazi? - Tiyeni tione chidwi cha akatswiri apadera.

Kuchita maliseche paunyamata

Kuchita maliseche pa nthawi ya kutha msinkhu ndi chinthu chofala kwambiri. Kukhuza zosowa zawo zogonana zikugwiritsidwa ntchito pakati pa achinyamata khumi ndi atatu (8) mwa khumi (10) alionse, - onetsetsani odwala matendawa pa maphunziro awo. Komanso, akatswiri atsimikiza kuti ntchito yoteroyo siimaphatikizapo maganizo-maganizo ndi matupi, kupatulapo nthawi pamene chiwerewere chimakhala cholakwika. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, msinkhu amayamba kuseweretsa maliseche nthawi zambiri, kukhutira kumachitika mwanjira yodabwitsa kwambiri, kapena pamene kugonana kumasankhidwa asanayambe kugonana ndi mnzanuyo. Nthawi zina, chisangalalo cha ziwalo zoberekera ndi chiwalo, chomwe chimagwiritsidwa ntchito molimbikitsira dzanja, chimaonedwa kuti ndi chachilendo komanso chotetezeka kwa anyamata ndi atsikana paunyamata. Kugonana kwa anyamata, anyamata ndi atsikana, kumayambitsidwa ndi kusintha kwa mahomoni, chitukuko chokwanira komanso chofulumira cha kugonana. Zikudziwika kuti nthawi ino yakukula ikuphatikizidwa ndi kukhumudwa kwakukulu, nkhawa ndi zochitika. Kuchita maliseche, mwanayo amatenga matenda enaake, amachepetsa kugonana komanso nkhawa, choncho, mwanayo amapeza choyamba, zomwe zingamuthandize kupeŵa mantha ndi kusatetezeka panthawi yogonana ndi mnzake. Asayansi atsimikizira kuti kuseweretsa maliseche sikumayambitsa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya kugonana, monga kusowa kwa amuna kapena kusabereka kwa amayi, choncho makolo sayenera kudandaula, komanso kuopseza mwanayo ndi "nkhani zochititsa manyazi" zakale.

Achinyamata ochita maliseche pogwiritsa ntchito psychology

Lingaliro lakuti maliseche ndi lovulaza, limachokera ku kuya kwa zaka zambiri. Ngakhale m'masiku akale, anyamata omwe ankachita maliseche, anali otayika pakati pa anthu, iwo anaphwanyiridwa ufulu wolenga mabanja ndipo moyo unakhazikitsa udindo wa wotayika ndi wofooka. Ankaganiziranso kuti anyamata ogwiritsa ntchito maliseche amataya mphamvu zawo ndi mphamvu zawo pachabe, motero amakhala ofooka ndi obalalika. Udindo umenewu umakhazikitsidwa kwambiri pakati pa anthu, ndipo popeza kuti ku Soviet Union "panalibe ngakhale kugonana", ndiye kuti n'zovuta kuti makolo ambiri aganizirenso ndi kuvomereza kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kumakhala kosalekezereka, ndipo zimaonedwa ngati zachilendo ndi zachilengedwe pa njira yakukula mwana.