Choyamba, aliyense amadana nazo zonse. Pali anthu omwe amadzitcha okha osakhala okha, ndipo, mwinamwake, amakumana ndi vutoli mosiyana ndi omwe ali patsogolo pa wina aliyense akuda nkhawa ndi wina. Kawirikawiri amakhulupirira kuti pali nsanje yoyera ndi yakuda, kotero tiyeni tiwone ngati pali malo athu a lexicon akuti "zabwino" kaduka.
Kodi pali kusiyana?
Nsanje yoyera ndi pamene palibe kukhumudwa ndi kukwiya m'malingaliro anu, kumangokhalira kuyamikira kwambiri. Koma popeza lingaliro la kaduka limaphatikizapo kupezeka kwachisokonezo, kuyerekezera, osati zokhumba zabwino zokhudzana ndi kaduka, kusiyana koyera sikugwirizana ndi miyezo. Nsanje yoyera sizingakhale apo.
Chomwe chimatchedwa, kaduka wakuda - ichi ndiwonetseredwe kowona kwa nthawi iyi yamaganizo.
Timapereka zitsanzo ziwiri. Ngati bwenzi lanu lidziphatika palimodzi ndikudya, chifukwa cha kuchepa kwake, mukhoza kumverera zotsatirazi:
- chisangalalo, kuyamikira, kuwonetsera kuyamikira kochokera pansi pamtima - izi ndi ngati mutakhutira ndi fanizo lanu, chomwe chiri tanthawuzo la nsanje yoyera;
- kukhumudwa, malingaliro "zabwino zonse" kwa chibwenzi chako - ichi ndi nsanje kwenikweni, pamene "wakwiya" ndi winawake chifukwa ali ndi chinachake chimene alibe.
Mwachidwi ife tinabwera ku funso la chifukwa chomwe akazi amakondana wina ndi mzake.
Nsanje ya Akazi
Palibe mabwenzi abwenzi pakati pa amai, pali mpikisano wokha. Momwemonso, anthu onse, osinthika, amakondana, koma mwa amayi, pokhudzana ndi kulimbana kwa amuna, izi zimatchulidwa.
Kodi munayamba mwaganizapo chifukwa chake anthu amadana wina ndi mzake, koma ali ndi udindo wofanana? Mudzachitira nsanje mnzanu amene adagula laputopu yatsopano, koma simungamvere izi chifukwa cha oligarch,
Chisinthiko chikutipanga ife mpikisano, ndipo ichi ndi chitsimikizo cha kukhala ndi moyo kwa anthu. Koma timapikisana payekha. Oligarch ndi bajeti ya 5 biliyoni adzachitira nsanje oligarch ndi 12 biliyoni, ndipo inu mudzayankha - "Ndikanakhala ndi mavuto anu." Nsanje ikhoza kukhala yothandiza ndi yopindulitsa. Mukakhumudwa kuti mulibe zomwe mnzanuyo ali nazo, yongolani maganizo anu mu njira yabwino ndikudziwitsani: kodi chinthu chokhudzidwa ndi kaduka chikukukhudzani? Ngati ndi choncho, pitirirani kuzipindula, ndipo ngati sichoncho, simudzasiya nsanje.