Kodi mungayankhe bwanji poyankhulana?

Kukonzekera msonkhano ndi utsogoleri wamtsogolo ndi zovuta zambiri. Muyenera kuganizira zomwe muyenera kunena pomwe mukufunsidwa ndipo ndi bwino kukhala chete, sankhani zovala zoyenera ndipo musaiwale zomwe mwapeza poyankhula ndi abwana. Kuti muchite izi moyenera, muyenera kudziwa zambiri zamatsenga.

Choncho, tiyeni tiganize kuti mwagwirizana ndi abwana za malo ndi nthawi ya msonkhano ndipo tsopano mukuyenera kutenga udindo waukulu wokonzekera kuyankhulana:

1. Choyamba kukonzekera zikalata zofunikira (kuyambiranso, diploma ya maphunziro, pasipoti, etc.).

2. Werengani zambiri zokhudza kampani yomwe idakuitanani ku zokambirana (zomwe zikuwatsogolera, mbiri ya kampani, zopindula).

3. Musanamalire nthawi yoyendayenda, yomwe iyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito pamsewu, njira yopemphereramo.

4. Ganizirani za mayankho a mafunso omwe adzamveketsa pazokambirana ndi abwana:

• n'chifukwa chiyani munasankha kugwira ntchito mu kampaniyi?
• nchifukwa ninji munasiya ntchito yanu yomaliza?
• monga antchito, tchulani ulemu wanu ndi kufooka;

5. Konzani mafunso omwe mukufuna kufunsa.

6. Ganizirani mozama za zovala, sizothandiza pachabe "Amakumana pa zovala ...". Cholinga chanu ndi kukwaniritsa zochitika zoyambirira. Zovala zigwirizane ndi malo omwe mukufuna. Koma musaiwale kuti zovala zoyera, misomali, tsitsi loyera, nsapato zopukutidwa zimapanga lingaliro loyenera.

Ndipo tsopano ndi nthawi ya kuyankhulana, zomwe zingasinthe moyo wanu kuti ukhale wabwino. Ganizirani zomwe ziyenera kuyankhulana pa zokambirana, kuti musayang'ane pamatope.

Kodi ndi zolondola bwanji kuti muyankhule mu zokambirana?

1. Kulowa mu ofesi, musaiwale kunena hello, funsani kuwuza abwana kuti mwabwera. Ngati akukuuzani kuti mudikire, pewani mawu olakwika, khalani oleza mtima, musataye mtima wokondwera.
2. Lowani mu ofesi, musaiwale kuchotsa foni yam'manja. Nenani hello, kutchula dzina lanu ndi patronymic kwa amene mungayankhule nawo.
3. Mvetserani mosamala ku mafunsowa, ndikuyang'ana nkhope ya abwana. Yambani kuyankha mukamvetsa zomwe munapemphedwa. Ngati simukumvetsa bwino funsoli, pemphani pepani, pemphani kuti abwereze.
4. Poyankha funso, yesetsani kulankhula kuposa maminiti 2-3. Musaiwale kuti monosyllabic "inde", "ayi" ndi mawu amtendere angapangitse chithunzi cha kusatetezeka, osakhoza kufotokoza maganizo anu.
5. Ngati mutapemphedwa kuti muyankhule nokha, ganizirani zomwe munganene, ndi zomwe siziri, mu zokambirana. Tiuzeni za ntchito yanu, maphunziro. Sizingakhale zodabwitsa kunena za luso lawo komanso makhalidwe awo.
6. Ngati mukufuna chidwi chokula, muyenera kufunsa funsoli moyenera. Ndizofunikira kuphunzira kuchokera kwa otsogolera ngati muli ndi mwayi wopita patsogolo mtsogolo, ndipo musaiwale kufunsa za zomwe zikufunikira pazimenezi (maphunziro apamwamba a luso, maphunziro ena).
7. Kuwonjezera pa kunena zoona panthawi ya kuyankhulana, kumwetulira kwanu, kutsegula pang'ono ndi zabwino kumakhala kosasangalatsa.
8. Kunena zabwino, onetsetsani kuyamika chifukwa cha mwayi wopita kukafunsidwa.

Zomwe sitinganene pa zokambirana, kapena zolakwa zazikulu za wopemphayo:

1. Kudziwa zambiri zokhudza kampani. Kufunsa si nthawi ya mafunso anu kuchokera kwa abwana monga "Kodi inu mumagwira nawo ntchito yanji?".
2. Kusadziŵa mphamvu zawo ndi zofooka zawo. Musakhale ndi mayankho "kuti ndikufunseni bwino za abwenzi anga" kapena "Sindingadzitamande ndekha". Bwana sangafunse malo anu. Muyenera kudzipenda nokha ndikutamanda nokha. Palibe aliyense, kupatulapo inu, sakudziwa bwino mabungwe anu osungirako zinthu.
3. Verbosity. Yankhani funsoli mkati mwa mphindi 15, ndipo nthawi zina izi zikuchoka pa mutu waukulu - ichi, ndithudi, chidzakwiyitsa wopempha wanu. Lankhulani mwachidule, koma mwaganiza. Yankhani mozama komanso muli zitsanzo. Musadzitamande chifukwa chodziwana ndi anthu apamwamba.
4. Kudzikuza ndi katundu wambiri. Musafulumire kuganiza kuti mumavomerezedwa ku malowo, pamene mukupempha. Pakali pano, simusankha iwe, koma iwe.
5. Kudzudzula. Musanyoze atsogoleri oyambirira. Ngakhale ngati mukugwirizana ndi inu

Ndipo ife tidzakhudza pa kamphindi kakang'ono kamene kali koyankhulana. Ngati zanenedwa kuti mutatha kukambirana ndi abwana, iwo anakuuzani pa zokambirana kuti abwererenso, ndi bwino kupeza njira zina zomwe mungafunire. Musamayembekezere "kubwereranso" kuchokera kwa abwana. Nthaŵi zambiri, mawuwa ndi chabe kukana mwaulemu.

Musataye kudzidalira ndikukumbukira kuti chifukwa cha chipiriro ndi chidziwitso mungathe kukwaniritsa zambiri.