Komabe, maholide a chilimwe ndi yaitali kwambiri, ndipo wophunzira aliyense amakhala ndi nthawi yambiri yaulere, pamene sakudziwa kuti ndi bwino kuchita chiyani. Palibe makolo omwe amafuna kuti ana awo asamangokhala mumsewu, choncho amayesa kukhala ndi zosankha zosangalatsa. M'nkhani ino, tidzakuuzani zomwe zingatheke kutenga mwana pa tchuthi cha chilimwe, kotero kuti nthawi ino sichimatha pachabe.
N'chifukwa chiyani mumatenga mwana m'chilimwe mumzinda?
Mwatsoka, dacha sali konse. Komanso, makolo nthawi zonse amagwira ntchito ndipo nthawi zambiri sakhala ndi mwayi wopita limodzi ndi mwanayo kumudzi. Ngati inu ndi mwana wanu mukukakamizika kukhala mumzinda wonse wonse wa chilimwe, gwiritsani ntchito mkhalidwe umenewu kuti mupite kumadera ambiri okondweretsa.
Masiku ano m'mizinda yambiri mitundu yonse yamapaki okondweretsa imatsegulidwa, kumene mungathe kukhala tsiku lonse ndikukondwera. Onetsetsani kuti mutenge mwanayo ku zoo, m'chilimwe n'zosavuta. M'munda wa botani wa mzinda wanu nthawi ino ya chaka ndi wokongola kwambiri, chifukwa pafupifupi maluwa onse akuphulika kumeneko.
Kuwonjezera apo, m'miyezi ya chilimwe mukhoza kupita ku paki yamadzi yotsika mtengo. Kukoma mtima kwa mwana wanu kudzakhala kokwanira, koma mukhoza kupulumutsa pang'ono. Komanso, nyengo zambiri zimakhala bwino, m'mizinda yambiri, zithunzi zambiri za m'misewu zimatseguka, pomwe opanga mafilimu ndi ozungulira masewerawa amawonetsera bwino.
Pomalizira, nthawi yambiri yaufulu ikhoza kugwiritsidwa ntchito popita ku malo osungiramo zinthu zakale, zokopa zosiyanasiyana ndi zojambulajambula.
Kodi mungachite chiyani kwa ana pa tchuthi kunyumba?
Mwamwayi, chilimwe sichitikondweretsa nthawi zonse. Kaŵirikaŵiri pamakhala choncho, ana a sukulu ndi sukulu ya msinkhu amatha masiku onse kunyumba kwawo patsogolo pa TV kapena kompyuta. Komabe, mu nyengo yoipa, mutha kukhala ndi zosangalatsa zambiri zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati simukudziwa choti muchite pa tchuthi la zaka 10, yesetsani kumuitanira kusewera masewera. Ana a msinkhu uwu amasangalala kusewera ndi makolo awo, kuyesa kutsimikizira kuti ali apamwamba kwambiri. Chosankha chabwino kwambiri muzochitika izi ndizo masewera otchuka padziko lonse lapansi "Carcassonne", omwe ali oyenera kwa ana oposa zaka 7-8 ndi akuluakulu.
Mmasewerawa, ophunzira onse amasankha yekha ntchito yochititsa chidwi - wakuba, msilikali, wakulima kapena wolemekezeka. Ana a sukulu amapita maola ambiri kutsogolo kwa masewerawo, kuyika nawo maphunziro awo ndi kupambana gawo kuchokera kwa okondedwa awo.
Ndiponso, malingana ndi zosankha za mwana wanu wamwamuna kapena wamkazi, mutha kusewera Mmodzi wamodzi kapena Mtsogoleri, Scrabble kapena Scrabble ndi masewera ena ambiri.
Komanso, musaiwale za zosangalatsa zosangalatsa za banja lonse, monga puzzles. Ngati mwana wanu ali wolimbika kwambiri, mum'gulire chojambula chachikulu ndipo nthawi zina mumuthandize kusonkhanitsa. Pomalizira, mungakhale ndi mwana wokhala ndi chizoloŵezi. Mwachitsanzo, msungwana angaphunzitsidwe kuti agwirizane, ndipo mnyamata akhoza kuwotchedwa mumtengo.
Kodi mungachite chiyani kwa ana a msinkhu wa pulayimale mu chilimwe pamsewu ndi kunyumba?
M'chilimwe mumsewu mungaganize za zosangalatsa zambiri zosangalatsa. Nthawi zambiri amapita ku chilengedwe, kuphika shish kebab ndi kusewera masewera othamanga - kubisa ndi kufunafuna, kugwira, badminton, tennis. Kuphatikiza apo, mukhoza kuphunzitsa mwana kusambira, kugubuduzika pa njinga kapena njinga, ngati sakudziwa momwe angachitire.
Onetsetsani kuti muwerenge mabuku a ana anu. Ana a msinkhu uwu amakondabe pamene makolo amawawerengera asanagone. Muzigwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochuluka ndi mwanayo, chifukwa posachedwapa adzakusiyani.