Choncho, anthu osabereka amakhala amayi ndi abambo a mwana wawo wamwamuna kapena wamkazi, omwe ali ndi ma chromosomes, ndipo amayi omwe amamukonda amapeza mphoto yabwino. Kuonjezerapo, pa nthawi yonse yothandizira, mthenga wodzitetezera amapezanso malipiro. M'nkhani ino tidzakudziwitsani momwe mungakhalire mayi wovomerezeka ku Russia ndi Ukraine, ndipo ndi malemba ati omwe mukufuna.
Ndingatani kuti ndikhale mayi wamasiye?
Mayi wodalirika ali ndi maziko ovomerezeka. Makamaka, boma la boma lirilonse limakhazikitsa zofunika zomwe zimayenera kukumana ndi mkazi amene akudandaula kuti ali ndi udindo wolemba mndandanda, mndandanda wa matenda omwe angathe kugwiritsira ntchito ntchito za mayi wopatsirana, komanso malamulo okhudzana ndi ndalama pakati pa maphwando. Kuonetsetsa kuti m'tsogolomu, kuchokera kwa makolo omwe ali ndi mwana, komanso kuchokera kwa mayi woponderezedwa, palibe madandaulo, mgwirizanowu umatha nthawi yomweyo pakati pawo, kusonyeza ufulu ndi maudindo a chipani chilichonse.
Choncho, ku Russia mayi wamwamuna wodziteteza ayenera kukhala m'zaka za pakati pa 20 ndi 35, ali ndi mwana mmodzi wamba, wobadwira mwachibadwa komanso ali ndi thanzi labwino. Ku Ukraine, msilikali wodzitamandira akhoza kukhala mkazi aliyense wosachepera 18 komanso osapitirira zaka 51, mwinamwake zofunikira zimakhala zofanana.
Ngati nonse mwaganiziridwa bwino ndikuganiza kuti muthandize banja lina kukhala makolo omwe ali ndi ndalama zambiri, choyamba, ndikofunikira kudziwa ngati mukukwaniritsa zofunikira. Kenaka muyenera kusankha bungwe loyenerera, limene mudzafotokozere mwatsatanetsatane momwe mungakhalire wolembera, ndipo muuzeni za amayi omwe akutsatira.
Pogwirizana ndi mgwirizanowu ndi koyenera kukonzekera zotsatirazi:
- pasipoti ndi chidziwitso cholembetsa;
- kalata yobereka mwana wanu;
- chivomerezo chodziwika bwino cha mnzanuyo, ngati muli wokwatira;
- ndondomeko yaumwini ndi kuvomereza kusamutsira mwana kwa banja lina;
- kuyesa magazi kwa gulu ndi Rh factor;
- HIV, hepatitis B ndi C ndi matenda ena opatsirana pogonana;
- kuyesa magazi ndi zamoyo zamagazi, kafukufuku wamakono;
- zotsatira za ultrasound ya pelvis yaing'ono;
- smear pa zomera;
- chiwonetsero;
mapeto a wodwalayo, wamaganizo, wamagulu a amayi ndi katswiri wa zamoyo za kusowa kwa kutsutsana.
Pofuna kupewa chinyengo, ndikofunikira kusankha bungwe loyenera lomwe lingakuthandizeni kukhala mayi wovomerezeka, mwachitsanzo, ku Moscow mudzayandikira ndi makampani monga Sweetchild, Deltaclinic kapena Nova Klinik. Mabungwe ofanana alipo mumzinda waukulu kwambiri wa Russia ndi Ukraine, komabe asanayambe ntchito zomwe amapereka, m'pofunika kuti awerenge ndemanga ndi kuwerenga mosamalitsa mawu a mgwirizano wamtsogolo.