Kusankhidwa kwa mphete zaukwati sikofunika kwenikweni ndipo ndi mphindi yofunikira kuposa kusankha kavalidwe kwa mkwatibwi ndi kukonza phwando lonselo. Chikondwererochi chimangokhala tsiku limodzi koma chimatha, koma zala za zizindikiro za chikondi zidzakongoleredwa kwa nthawi yoposa chaka. Zina mwa mfundo zotsatirazi zidzakuthandizani kudziwa momwe mungasankhire mphete zabwino zaukwati. Mumafuna kuti iwo azikwanira komanso osapweteka tsiku ndi tsiku. Apo ayi, iwo adzipeza mwamsanga pakhomo pa alumali.
Kodi ndi mphete ziti zaukwati zomwe zingakhale bwino kusankha?
Zogulitsa zodzikongoletsera zimangomveka ndi ziwonetsero zokongoletsera za golide, zopereka zosiyana zowonjezera mphete muzojambula zamakono komanso zamakono. Ndipo onse amapeza eni ake. Zambiri mwazinthu zomwe mwasankhazi zikhoza kukwaniritsidwa. Ndipo izi ndizo zabwino kwambiri kwa okondedwa, chifukwa mphete zomwezo zimalengeza zonse za ubale wanu, pambali pake zikuwoneka zachikondi komanso zogwirizana.
Mapangidwe ndi mapangidwe a "gulu laukwati" akhoza kukhala osiyanasiyana, koma ndi bwino kusankha chomwe chimakuyenererani. Musagule mankhwala okongola omwe amatsuka pang'ono kapena mosiyana, ndi aakulu kwambiri. Ndi bwino kupatsa nthawi yambiri, koma kuti mupeze mzanu wabwino, kusiyana ndikumva chisoni kwa zaka zambiri za kusankha kwanu kolakwika.
Masiku ano, achinyamata ambiri amamvetsera chokongoletsera choyambirira ndi kukhalapo kwa zokongoletsa m'mphete. Zitha kukhala zojambula, zojambulajambula kapena zodzikongoletsera. Komabe, ngati mtsikanayo akonda njira yotsirizayi, ndi bwino kumvetsera kuti chokongoletsera pa mphete sichitha, kapena, choipitsitsa, sichinatuluke. Choncho, miyala iyenera kukhala yachilengedwe, ndi ntchito yapamwamba kwambiri.
Anthu ena okwatirana kumene, akuganiza za momwe angasankhire magulu achikwati, samvetsera zizindikiro zosiyana siyana. Mwachitsanzo, zikuonedwa kuti ziyenera kukhala zosavuta. Pankhaniyi, achinyamata adzakhala ndi moyo womwewo, osavuta komanso opanda mavuto. Komanso ndiletsedwa kupereka kwa wina kuyesa kapena kugwa pansi pamaso paukwati, popeza ukulonjeza kupatukana. Koma kuti alandire choloĊµa mphete yothandizira kuchokera kwa okalamba omwe apulumuka ukwati wa golide amaonedwa kukhala mwayi waukulu ndi chizindikiro chabwino.
Koma, si onse omwe amakhulupirira zizindikiro, ndipo chikondi chachikulu chokha chidzawatsogolera achinyamata kukhala achimwemwe ndi moyo wabwino. Ndipo mphete zagolidi zosankhidwa bwino zimakondweretsa banjali kwa zaka zambiri.