Pakati pa mimba ndi kubadwa kwa mwana nthawi zonse kumakhala kukangana kwakukulu ndi zikhulupiliro: musagule zovala pasadakhale, musasankhe dzina, musaneneratu tsiku la kubadwa, ndi zina zotero. Koma pali funso lomwe ndilofunika kusankha pasadakhale komanso moyenera: "Ndi chipatala chiti chimene mungasankhe?". Poyamba, anthu ambiri adayimitsa chisankho ichi mpaka kumapeto kwa trimester ndipo adasankha chipatala chakumayi pamene kunali kofunikira kuti asonkhanitse zinthu zofunika kuti abereke. Posachedwapa, malingaliro okhudza kubala kwasintha, amayi akuyamba kusankha chipatala chakumayi mwamsanga. Tiyeni tiwone ngati kuli kofunikira kwambiri mwamsanga kuti tikambirane za izi ndi nthawi yosankha chipatala chakumayi.
Ndi nthawi yanji kusankha bwino chipatala chakumayi?
Kubadwa kwa mwana ndi nthawi yofunika kwambiri komanso yodikiridwa kwambiri m'moyo wa banja, choncho ndi bwino kukonzekera chochitikachi pasadakhale. Pali zifukwa zomveka izi:
- Azimayi omwe ali ndi thanzi labwino m'nthawi yathu ino alibe kanthu, komanso chitsimikizo chakuti kutenga mimba ndi kubereka sikudzayendera bwino, komanso, mosadalira, malinga ndi momwe mudzasankhire kuchipatala ndi dokotala, mudzateteza komanso chitetezo cha mwana wanu;
- zoyamba zomwe mumayambira, zambiri zomwe mungapeze. Pakali pano, pali malo ambiri a amayi apamtsogolo, pa maulendo omwe mudzawerenga molondola za chipatala chilichonse chakumayi mumzinda mwanu.
- Mayi akakhala ndi mimba ndi bomba la mahomoni, kuti kubadwa kumaphatikizidwe ndi kuphulika kwa malingaliro ndi kuweruza zoganizira za mkazi aliyense sikofunikira; Pa chipatala chomwecho chakumayi mungathe kumvetsera mayankho osiyanasiyana a makhadi, izi zikufunikiranso kulingalira ndi kusanthula bwino musanasankhe nyumba ya amayi oyembekezera;
- Ngakhale dokotala wabwino kwambiri ndi wolemekezeka sangakukondeni ngati munthu, ndipo kubereka ndikofunika kwambiri: muyenera kukhulupirira dokotala ndikudzidalira kuti muzingoganizira za kubereka. Ndichifukwa chake sikofunikira kusankha chipatala chakumayi monga dokotala. Koma zikhalidwe za kukhala ndi kubereka musanabadwe ndi zofunikira, choncho muyenera kusankha mosamala.
Kodi mungasankhe bwanji chipatala chakumayi?
Nazi malingaliro a momwe mungasankhire chipatala chakumayi ndi zomwe muyenera kulipira mwapadera:
- Zochitika pa nthawi yobereka. Funsani zomwe mungakhale mu chipatala (kukhalapo kwasamba, firiji), zomwe mungabweretse ndi inu, ndi anthu angati omwe amawerengedwa. N'zotheka kuti mutha kukhalapo sabata kapena awiri kumeneko.
- Chipinda chobwezera. Pezani ngati pali mabanja osiyana, ngati chipatala chakumayi chimawathandiza kuti abwerere limodzi, kaya n'zotheka kusankha kubereka (mkazi akhoza kusankha kubereka kumene).
- Zida zofunikira zamphamvu zamagetsi ndi a neonatologists. Ndalama imakuutsimikizirani kuti chirichonse chidzayenda bwino ndipo simukuyembekezera zozizwitsa zodabwitsa. Kuwonjezera apo, ndikofunika kuti muthe kupeza thandizo ndikuzilandira panthawi yake.
- Tchulani mtundu wa kubwerera pambuyo pa mwana ndi mwana (wokhudzana kapena wosiyana), kaya achibale angakuchezereni (nthawizina
Kukhalapo kwa amayi kapena mwamuna kumathandiza kwambiri pakapita kusintha kwa amayi apakati).
Ndingasankhe nokha chipatala chakumayi?
Nyumba yokhala ndi amayi otha msinkhu ingathe ndipo iyenera kusankhidwa yokha, kusonkhanitsa zonse. Ngati mwasankha kale kumene mukufuna kubereka, pali njira zingapo zopita kwa amayi oyembekezera:
- Mungathe kupanga mgwirizano ndi chipatala chakumayi kapena kampani ya inshuwalansi (izi sizinayambe zakhalapo kale, koma zimapereka chitsimikizo cha zinthu zabwino zokhala ndi chidwi chochokera kwa antchito);
- kuti agwirizane ndi dokotala (kulipirira ntchitozo kwa dokotala, adzakonzekera yekha);
- chipatala chilichonse chosamalidwa chidzakuvomerezani (koma izi sizitanthauza kuti zinthu zikhale bwino, komanso, khadi losinthanitsa liyenera kudzazidwa mokwanira).