Kawirikawiri pali chilakolako chophunzira kuwerenga maganizo a anthu oyandikana nawo, kupeza mayankho a mafunso osangalatsa, kuti mudziwe zomwe munthu wina amaganiza.
Pa funso ngati n'zotheka kuphunzira kuwerenga nkhani za anthu ena, timayankha motsimikiza kuti: inde, n'zotheka. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kuchita khama ndikuphunzitsa nthawi zonse. Nkhaniyi ikukuuzani momwe mungaphunzirire kuŵerenga maganizo.
Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kuwerenga maganizo a anthu ena?
Zedi, aliyense wa ife anamva za lingaliro la " telepathy " - ndiko kukhoza kuwerenga maganizo a munthu wina. Ndipo popeza kuti liwu ilipo, limatanthauza kuti n'zotheka kuphunzira kuwerenga maganizo. Pachifukwa ichi, sikofunikira kukhala ndi luso lapadera, monga lamulo, ndondomekoyi nthawi zambiri imapezeka mwadzidzidzi. Nthawi zambiri, mphamvu zapadera zimadzutsidwa mwa munthu m'mikhalidwe yovuta: mwachitsanzo, pamaphunziro wophunzirayo akukumbukira mwadzidzidzi chinachake chimene sanaphunzitse, kwinakwake iye anamva mfundoyo. Kapena, panthawi yovuta kwambiri, mwadzidzidzi mawu achinsinsi amayamba kumva. Zinthu ngati zimenezi zimatsimikizira kuti munthu angathe kuphunzira kuwerenga maganizo a anthu ena. Tsopano chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndicho kupeza zomwe zingatheke.
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani kuti muphunzire kuwerenga maganizo a ena? Kuwerenga za malingaliro ndi kusinthana kwa mphamvu za mphamvu. Inde, tonse timadziwa kuti chilengedwe chonse chimamva malingaliro athu ndipo ndi zinthu zakuthupi. Kuchokera pa izi, zimakhala kuti lingaliro lililonse la munthu aliyense limakhala gawo la mphamvu zonse zapadziko lapansi.
Milandu yatsimikiziridwa kuti m'madera osiyanasiyana a dziko lapansi, alendo sanalota maloto omwewo, omwe anali chizindikiro cha zochitika zomwe zidzachitike. Chimodzimodzinso chingatchulidwe pazinthu zotchedwa maloto olosera. Choncho, ngati mwasankha kuphunzira kuwerenga maganizo a anthu ena, nkofunikira, choyamba, kuti mutenge maganizo a munthu wina pazomwe mukudziwa zambiri.
Takonzekera malangizo angapo kuti akuthandizeni kumvetsetsa momwe mungaphunzirire kuwerenga malingaliro.
- Kuti mukhale ndi luso limeneli, m'pofunika kuphunzira momwe mungaganizire ndi kumasuka. Kuwathandiza kubwera kusinkhasinkha, yoga, kumasuka ndi zochitika zina zokhudzana ndi kupuma .
- Ndikofunika kuphunzira momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito chidziwitso chanu ndikuchibweretsa mumtendere. Musadabwe mukamaliza kunena kuti ngakhale mutakhala momasuka mukupitiriza kusinkhasinkha. Ntchito yotsatira ndiyoyendetsa maganizo anu. Izi zikhoza kuchitika pakupanga mutu wanu "chete mwamtendere". Yesani kuletsa kuyesera konse pa chidziwitso kuti mupange lingaliro latsopano ndipo musaganize. Ndi kuphunzitsidwa nthawi zonse ndi nthawi mukhoza kuchotsa malingaliro anu.
Mukaphunzira kumasula cholengedwa, pitirizani kuchita zovuta zambiri. Choyamba, konzekerani chipinda chimene palibe amene angakuvutitseni. Ziyenera kukhala zosiyana ndi phokoso ndi phokoso losatuluka.
- Lankhulani ndi wokondedwa wanu. Adzafunika kulingalira za mwambo kapena mphindi yomwe mwakumana nawo palimodzi. Chikhalidwe chachikulu -
sayenera kunena zomwe akuganiza. Ayeneranso kudzipatula yekha kwa ena ndikudzipangitsa kukhala womasuka. - Pambuyo pokhala chete mwamtendere m'malingaliro, yesetsani kumva zomwe mnzanuyo akuganiza. Ngati mutha kuganizira, pang'onopang'ono zidutswa zidzayamba kuoneka pamutu mwanu zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi malingaliro anu. Kuyesera kumatha kumaliza pamene muwona kuti mukuwona zithunzi ndi malingaliro a mnzanuyo.
Zochita zoterezi ziyenera kubwerezedwa nthawi zonse, kuyambira kuyesayesa koyamba zomwe sizingatheke kuphunzira kuphunzira kuwerenga, koma mwakhama ndi chipiriro, mukhoza kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna.