Nthaŵi zina kumverera kuti chinachake cholakwika chikuwombera. Inu mumayamba kuchita mosiyana, zomwe mumakonda zimasintha ndipo mumagonjetsedwa ndi chilakolako chachilendo cha munthu. Pachifukwa ichi, ndi bwino kuwerenga zizindikiro za momwe mungamvekere. Privorot - ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zowonongeka kwambiri kwa munthu zochitika zamatsenga wakuda, ndikuzichotsa nthawi yochepa kwambiri.
Kotero, kumvetsa bwanji kuti mwamuna kapena mtsikana anadodometsedwa?
- Ngati mwadzidzidzi munthu mmodzi yekha adakhala pakati pa dziko lapansi, ichi ndi chizindikiro choopsa kwambiri.
- Munthu wokondeka sakudziwa aliyense yemwe ali pafupi naye.
- Mwamuna amene amakondwera ali wotsimikiza: popanda chikondi chake iye adzafa. Komabe, kugwirizana ndi izo sikukondweretsa, mmalo mosiyana, kumapangitsa kukhala ndi mtima wolakwa.
- Pali chilakolako cha kusungulumwa, koma motsutsana ndi chifuniro cha munthu, amakopeka ndi wogula, chomwe chimabweretsa mavuto.
- Mwamunayo amavutika nthawi zonse ndi kutopa ndipo ali ndi mawonekedwe enieni: mwina kuthawa kapena kusungunuka.
- Mwamuna amene wakhala wamakono nthawi zonse alibe mphamvu zokwanira kuti avomereze khalidwe lake losavomerezeka.
- Munthu amatayika chidwi pa chilichonse chomwe chinamukopa kale ndikumukondweretsa.
- Popanda munthu wololera, kusowa chiyembekezo ndi kupsinjika maganizo kumamveka, koma pamaso pake sizikhala bwino.
- Kutaya kudzidalira, mantha a kupatukana ndi amphamvu kuposa izi.
- Munthuyo amayamba kukhala wodzichepetsa, amakhulupirira mawu alionse a amene adalodza.
- Mwamuna amasautsidwa ndi zoopsa kapena kusowa tulo . Mu maloto kawirikawiri pali zolinga zovuta.
- Munthu akayesera kukana izi, amakhala wosasamala ndipo amafuna kudzipha.
- Kawirikawiri, kulolera (kasitomala) pali chisokonezo, ndikufuna kupha munthu uyu ndikudzimasula ndekha.
Pambuyo powerenga zizindikiro izi za kumvetsetsa kuti munthu adalodzedwa, mungathe kupeza zolondola zolondola. Koma kuti muthe kuchotsa chikhalidwe ichi, muyenera kutembenukira kwa omwe ali ndi matsenga akuda.